So, I've seen him again, after a long time. But it was really good at the beginnig. We had such a nice chat starting to get to the points slowly, because there are several difficult points about us. But then one common friend of ours arrived and it was over. She interrupted us immediately and then sticked to us for the rest of the evening. Well, the chance has been given once more soon. But there were friends there around us all the time too and it feels too embarrasing to show your deep feelings in front of common friends. I let myself go only once, at the end, quite impulsively, out of desperation that we are going to end up nowhere again. I made a nice show to those friends, I suppose, but I don't regret because I will never forget this moment. Still, how to manage such interrupting friends? I thought that it is clear to some of them that there is something going on between us two. Shouldn't they be more delicate and leave us alone or am I expecting too much?
2007-10-21 22:43:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the thing is that we are still at that stage that everything is fragile and I cannot ask him out just like that because I don't know if he would like it!!!
and also, maybe I'm terribly oldfashioned, but I have it somewhere in my head that it should be a boy who asks a girl out and not vice versa...do you agree???.....
2007-10-21 23:18:57 · update #1
Hey--call this guy and suggest a date for lunch where the others won't go--take a ride out of town--eat---talk--laugh--see if there is any hope. Good luck
2007-10-21 22:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan to go somewhere you know that the friends will not go. Tell him that you think that you and he need some alone time to get reacquainted.
2007-10-21 22:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to take charge and get your guy and go some where else (ALONE). Call him and make a date with him.
2007-10-21 22:48:57 · answer #3 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋