today my husband decided that he dosent want to be with me anymore and everything but our home is in his name and i was a stay at home mom for the past 2 years but i dont want him to take our baby
2007-10-21 21:39:24 · 9 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go to citisen advice,you will get custady,sometimes you can get a free so;;icter for 15 mins to get advice
2007-10-21 21:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by sky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay at home mother or not you have half of that house now even if it is in his name! So don't worry yourself either phone citizens advice or contact a lawyer now! Also he is not allowed to run off with a baby or son and if he does the courts will not look very favourably upon him this is why you need to get in contact with a lawyer now! They will help you keep or get your son back, in most cases the mothers get custody and if it was him that decided to break up the family that also goes aganist his favour BEST of luck!!
2007-10-22 04:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek legal advice on this issue, although I do believe that the courts will acknowledge the fact that you were a stay at home mother and make allowances for that. Furthermore, I think that he will have to pay you spousal support or assist you in finding a place to stay due to the fact that you worked at home. It all depends on what state you live in, though. Talk to a lawyer and they will tell you everything you need to know regarding the divorce and custody issues.
2007-10-22 04:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. T 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ususally the courts give the woman the majority of the custody unless she's unfit (drugs, extreme mental illness). So he won't take your baby away. And even if everything is in his name, you'll be entitled to alimony and child support and may even get the house, given the baby. Get a good lawyer.
2007-10-22 09:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by abrennan01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a move TODAY!!!!!! I f you wait for him to decide everything you will be left with NOTHING!!! You can be left with no home, no clothes, no food for a while but.....I assure u you wont be able to be without your child!!!!! I speak by my own experience. Beware!!! Go to the best lawyer u can afford!! dont give up of being a mum
All the luck!!
2007-10-22 04:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have any of the credit cards take it retain an attorney and take care of yourself at all cost. Make sure he specializes in divorce/custody and that he can make your husband pay your attorney fees.
2007-10-22 04:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
File for custody, child support and spousal support! Get an attorney ASAP.
2007-10-22 04:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a good lawyer, thats the only way your gonna keep your son. The golden rule of law, MONEY TALKS AND B.S. WALKS. My sister-in-law had to learn it the hard way. ;-(
2007-10-22 04:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Then you better get a job, fast, and a home.
2007-10-22 04:44:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋