2007-10-21 21:27:00 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow, I didn't expect so many answers...
2007-10-21 22:39:37 · update #1
First let me apologize to you, if you have experienced the pain of being cheated on, its not nice at all.
secondly the answer to your question is this;
all creatures when faced with a very threatening situation do one of three things, they either TAKE FLIGHT, TRY TO FIGHT or COMPROMISE, in the case of MEN who are embarrassed at being caught, and also a ibt affraid of losing the woman , even though they cheated on her, they still dont want to lose her 9 times out of 10 , so what do men do, They choose the FIGHT scenario of the FEAR FACTOR, since they have power and size, they are hoping that will over rule a womans common sense and scare her into staying with him,, I think it is really that simple..
2007-10-21 21:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by Daddy in a box :) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they got caught with their hand in the cookie jar and they are mad because they didn't get away with it. They become aggressive because now they are really upset that they can't have their cake and eat it to. Now it comes down to them having to make a choice to stop cheating or lose everything they have with you. They are angry because them getting caught they know changes the trust about them in the relationship and nothing will be the same. Also, that they will have to work on the issues in themselves with you to understand why they betrayed you and be accountable for it. It makes them look bad in your eyes and you were never suppose to see that! It makes them unstable and they are mad and try to justify the cheating by making you feel it was your fault....when they know it was their choice and they screwed it all up because they know they were not right and they hate being wrong because it shows they are weak.
2007-10-22 05:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easy question cuz he has a guilty concious, he is feeling guily so he wants 2 try 2 make u feel like **** 2 make himself feel better by trying 2 defend himself by becoming aggressive so that u 2 will feel the guilt (but 4 catching him).
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2007-10-22 04:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by Boo Boo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He becomes so out of frustration. He never could catch her wife for the same reason knowing she is doing the same, while he got caught. more over , in worst case , the whole thing could take a big portion of his possession as divorced money given to his wife and her lover( if some one really exist).
2007-10-22 04:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by hotpot_garry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People who cheat tend to be lousy loser. It has nothing to do with whether they are men or women but simply they like winning more than losing, whicih explain why they cheat. Since their game is over after being caught, their instinctive reponse were usually an angry one to gain a 'winning' edge over their opponent.
2007-10-22 04:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lionheart 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience, I was angry for being a ******* and not knowing how else to act. Also angry at the way life had turned out. Male hormones also kick in making us more aggressive.
2007-10-22 04:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by Johnnyo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a defensive mechanism within anyone. Usually anger is the first thing that most people will rely on when they are in a situation where they knew they were wrong. It doesn't matter what they are doing.
2007-10-22 04:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by shyguy4no1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because he has been caught. He knows he did wrong but refuses to admit to it because it will make him appear the weaker person. It is a power struggle. The man can try all he wants to make himself seem bigger and stronger but we all know that a man that cheats is a small pathetic little man.
2007-10-22 04:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by Lum 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well i guess men dont like been caught out an will try an hide anything also with this they will get angry an worm there way out of it all... I always believe when people get really aggressive maybe its like truth coming out hitting a nerve they dont like
2007-10-22 04:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet_mystery 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because they hate to get caught. They figure that a good offense is better than having defend their actions.
The male code: Never admit to it, even if you are caught red handed. Lie and make her feel guilty for asking. If all else fails tell her that it was her fault that it happened.
2007-10-22 04:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋