2007-10-21 20:07:26 · 9 answers · asked by sfun42 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm so sorry for your hurt. I think you and your wife should seek professional help. No woman who stays married to a man for that amount of time should feel like she's forced to show him love. I think she needs more counseling than you. Do you have any complaints like that about her? If, so then you both need to seek professional help if the marriage is going to survive.
2007-10-22 01:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want any chance of your marriage to work, you're going to have to see a marriage counselor and find out why she feels this way and whether or not these feelings are permanent or a result of issues that can be worked on.
It is unlikely you and your wife will be able to resolve this without professional help. There is no shame in getting help.
2007-10-22 03:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by Infernal Disaster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With that amount of information, nobody on here will be able to give you any relevant advice.
You need to talk this through with your wife....calmly.
Does she love you?
Have you been too demanding?
Do you not trust her love enough, and you keep forcing her to display it?
Has she told you this because she wants to leave or because she wants you both to build a better relationship.
You need to talk to her. Only the two of you can work through this.
2007-10-22 03:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by Copper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your wife should go to a marriage counsellor to find out what exactly is the problem between the 2 of u and work it out.
2007-10-22 03:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by Princess A 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You ABSOLUTELY need to find out why she feels this way! You need to need to know if you've made her feel that way or if she has other reasons. Get to the root of the problem, because she obviously has one. It took her an oftly long time to let you know she was unhappy. Why?
2007-10-22 03:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by Rach 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously that would hurt your feelings. I'm sorry. I don't know what you should do other than talk with her and find out exactly what she means and what the problem is.
2007-10-22 03:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by the Boss 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have her to explain just what she means by that. Then take it from there.There must be a reason she said it. Good Luck
2007-10-22 03:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by mikk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her to figure why she said that. If its true go to counseling and figure it out. Try your best to make it work.
2007-10-22 03:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by itsjust me123 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kick her ungrateful *** out of it
2007-10-22 03:13:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋