So My best friend told me something about this one chick at our school, on how she was a a badd kid who got in trouble and expiremented with drugs, and a couple days ago i saw her outside of the school when i was getting picked up. and she came up to me, and i said to her, are u friends with bethany..because she somethin funny to me about how u get in trouble and stuff..and she got so madd that my friend said that..and instead of having this all spring on my friend i called her to tell her..and ever since she hasnt said anything to me..and i've apologized alot..
2007-10-21 19:56:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
shes mad because she was gossiping to you and you totally told on her! i guess you dont have that many girl friends since youre a guy, but girls like to gossip, but the thing is youre not suposed to tell! ever hear the phrase "you didnt hear it from me but..." yeah girls love to gossip but just hate to have it pinned on them. girls talk about other girls behind their back and act nice to their face. so you screwed her over because now she cant be all fake to this girls face because she knows shes been talking about her behind her back. you ruined all her ways to pass the time.
2007-10-21 20:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by jenixlynn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, on one hand, you shouldn't talk about the things your friends say to you. If you were best friends, that means that you say things to each other that you wouldn't say to anyone else. On the other hand, your friend shouldn't be talking about someone else behind their back. This is why you don't say things that you wouldn't tell a person to their face.
My advise is to tell your friend that you are sorry, that you didn't mean to cause any ill feelings, and that you'll try to remember that the things you say stay between the two of you.
2007-10-22 03:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by Shine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's obvious that you put your friend in a bad light. Maybe you forgot the word "tact" and "respect" by confronting that other person. I don't think your friend liked what you did...you hurt and insulted her more than you did the other girl. She has all the reasons to be mad, but this will be forgotten in due time, that is if she really is a friend.. afterall, friends know how to forgive and forget friends shortcomings.
2007-10-22 03:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by mushkybear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u werent supposed to tell her she trusted u with her opinion about another girl at school and u went and broke that trust thats why shes mad give her some time to cool off and then explain to her that u are a guy and dont know too much about girls and their gossip and let her know it wont happen again and MEAN IT!
2007-10-22 03:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by viviana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not exactly the brightest bulb in the circuit eh?
Apologies probably won't fix it. Learn your lesson...always keep your mouth shut about anything you didn't see with your own eyes.
2007-10-22 03:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good riddance. There's an old saying: "You can never have too few friends."
PS: I don't think girls like to be called "chicks."
2007-10-22 03:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by Wise@ss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well number one, its never good to gossip about people becuase it just comes back and bites you in the butt, like it did her because you....opened your mouth and spilled the beans. you should have kept it to yourself and just acted like you didnt hear anything. your friend is probably embarassed
2007-10-22 03:05:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth Hurts--or she thinks you shouldn't even ask-
2007-10-22 03:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋