...he looked at a female colleague's chest and body (when not in your presence)...or do you expect it?
2007-10-21 17:06:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
And if he constantly chatted her up upon seeing her each time?
2007-10-21 17:14:07 · update #1
I'd be mad, but that's just the way I am.
2007-10-21 17:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all if he did it and I was not around i would not know ergo i could not be mad about it. Secondly he is free to look at the menu as long as he doesn't order because I certainly appreciate a nice looking man when i see one and I am woman enough to admit that I do check out his "attributes".
2007-10-22 00:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by Only hell mama ever raised 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmm, yeah, but I think my primary feeling would be one of suspicion. Does he tend to chat up every attractive woman he meets or just this particular one? I think if he's "homing in" on one individual then the warning bells would be sounding.
2007-10-22 00:21:59 · answer #3 · answered by Irene E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I always trusted him and he always trusted me.
If he looked at her chest big deal. My late hubby was a biker and at these All Harley Blow outs, another woman's chest was a walk in the park, no big deal.
2007-10-22 00:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by ♫ Bubastes, Cat Goddess♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most men are like that nowadays bcoz pretty women with sexy dresses are everywhere. it is a nature for everybody to look at beautiful things .but important thing, don'd get mad. Make yourself more appealing to your husband and dont think about that too seriously
i include here verses from the Koran
30. Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts)That is purer for them. Verily, Allah is All-Aware of what they do.
31. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts) and not to show their adornment except only that which apparent (like both eyes for necessity to see the way, or outer palms of hands or one eye or dress like veil, gloves, head-cover, apron), and to draw their veils all over juyubuhinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms) and not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands, or their fathers, or their husbands's fathers, or their sons, or their husbands's sons, or their brothers or their brothers's sons, or their sisters's sons, or their (Muslim) women (i.e. theor sisters in Islam), or the (female) slaves whom their right hands possess, or old male servants who lack vigour, or small children who have no sense of feminine sex. And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment. And all of you beg Allah to forgive you all, O believers, that you may be successful.
24.Surat An-Nur (The Light) 30-31
2007-10-22 00:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by Asiah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋