im 15. my gramma let me borrow her pink shirt. i tried it on and it looks cute on me. i really want to keep it. i have worn it for three days. now im washing it. when i wear it, i think of her. i saw her today and she wanted her shirt back. i lied and said "i cant find it." the other time i said "its washing." i keep making excuses just so i can keep the shirt. how can i make her let me keep it? i dont want to give it back because i love the shirt and it reminds me of her. i dont want to tell her. help
2007-10-21 16:28:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
If you love your grandma so much, give her back her shirt!
1] that is not a good way to show love and respect
2] giving back what isn't yours, is the honest and moral thing to do.
3] doing difficult things is part of growing up
4] it is OK to like other people's things, but not to steal them!
Grow up, kiddo - now.
Tell Grandma you really appreciate her loaning you the shirt,
because it made you feel close to her.
Ask where she got it, save your money, and buy your own!
PS: Grandmas are not dummies - I wouldn't give someone who kept my clothing the reward of that item - that is just re-inforcing bad behavior.
Don't expect her to give it back to you, either.
2007-10-21 16:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would give her the shirt back but also ask her if you could keep it or borrow it from time to time and explain why it means so much to u...
2007-10-21 23:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ummm...... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her just what you told all of us. Tell her how much you love the shirt and how it makes you think of her when your wearing it.And also explain to her how you lied to her about it being in the wash when it really wasn't.I'm sure if your totally honest with her that shirt will be your's.
2007-10-21 23:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should return the shirt and let her know that you really appreciate her letting you borrow it because every time you wore it you felt closer to her and that was nice. Don't be surprised if she tells you to keep it or buys you your own.
2007-10-21 23:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by wife2denizmoi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, you could go out and buy the same shirt, and give the nre one to her, and keep hers and just not tell her that. BUt if you just keep wearing it everyday, aren't people going to start wondering why you wear the same shirt everyday? So, I would go with this plan.
2007-10-21 23:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i were you, i'd return it to her and tell her that you love that pink shirt because it reminds you of her. Then maybe she'll end up giving it to you. Or return it and ask ehr where she bought the shirt. Then you can go buy it for yourself or she'll buy one for you! Don't keep lying!!
2007-10-21 23:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, you are young. That's really materialistic of you. Time to grow up and be an honest human being. Where's your pride?
2007-10-21 23:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you really like it because it reminds you of her. Ask her if you can keep it....I'm sure that she'll let you.
2007-10-21 23:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you shouldn't steal your grandmother's shirt. If you want it, tell her why...if you don't want to tell her why, give it back.
2007-10-21 23:30:54 · answer #9 · answered by *ladybug* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she wants it back. Also, this is your grandma's shirt not yours....
2007-10-21 23:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋