i need more sparks what do i do?
2007-10-21 13:12:17 · 34 answers · asked by fresh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Start a fire under your man . Don't be unfaithful not a good move. Do anything you want that is kinky and drive him wild wild wild. Turn on some porn and set the stage for you and your husband. Is your man into being a swinger ? Are you ? Talk talk talk talk talk , get it all out with your husband and tell him how you feel about SEX. He should get the chance to know you , before he is to be in tuned to turning you on.. Some people cannot stay with one person and be satisfied. Do some soul searching dear, you have all to gain by being true to yourself first. Don't cheat again that's a fatal mistake. Good luck.
2007-10-21 13:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by margo322 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you are getting sparks at all you should really try a lubricant. I've been having great sex with my husband for years and I've NEVER seen sparks!! .......All kidding aside. You make it sound like being with only him is a bad thing. It's not. I promise you that sex with someone you love is more amazing than anything. You need to find ways to make sex more fun. Here are some of my ideas. Bring a glow stick to bed. Break out the handcuffs and leather. Tell erotic stories to each other. Get some toys and try some new things....cough cough. The spark starts with you. Get off your butt and start sparkin!
2007-10-21 13:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the answer to a sex problem is found in dealing with a relationship issue. How well do you and your husband get along outside of the bedroom? What other issues are you dealing with? The two of you need to sit down and talk - outside of the bedroom- about issues of sex and whatever else has you searching for more than you think you are getting in your marriage.
2007-10-21 13:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by LadyM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all stay with your husband and only him. There are ways that you can spice up your relationship with him and make the sparks fly. Try marital aids like vibrators or videos or read erotic stories to each other. If you go somewhere else or to someone else it will ruin both your lives.
Stay faithful and good luck!
2007-10-21 13:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by Big Red 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Create your own. Start a spark and build a fire. Talk to your husband about your need. Do you want more sparks with him or are you considering straying out of the marriage? Before straying, I would suggest talking to your hubby about your need for more. Perhaps, make it a point to go to a novelty store with him and find things that could make sex sizzle a bit more.
2007-10-21 13:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
you need something to compare him to. Find an old BF or a new Hot guy and experience it and compare. You might be surprised at what you have been misisng. Good luck.
2007-10-21 13:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by Left Wing kool aid stops here 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, seems that u have to openly talk to ur husband about experimenting more of what sex has to offer....but be very careful not to sound like a whore, it's not worth losing his trust and confidence - both to you and to himself as to how he performs in bed.
2007-10-21 13:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by jojp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to spice up the sex life a little with toys or possibly other partners or maybe even some role playing.
if he is anything like any other guy im sure he wont mind.
hope i helped, have good day.
-keebz
2007-10-21 13:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by KEEBZ 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
porn together, ask what turns him on, then tell him what turns you on, go from there, toys, strip clubs, 3 some, swing clubs, group sex, gang bangs, make him a cuckhold and watch you get BBC
2007-10-23 08:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by gary36330 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try bringin a woman in the room with u and havin her service ur hubby some women get off watchin their spouse be pleased by another woman
2007-10-21 13:16:53 · answer #10 · answered by mrdanno2003 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋