do poeple really change?

Question

or it's just us ?!
can you change for someone dear to your heart,or u prefer to stay the way u are and the other should accept me the way i am?
and how far will you go in changing for that one?

Answer 1

asslam 3alikom,
i think some have the ability to change totally,especially if this change is for a person dear to my heart(i always ask her to tell me what i do that annoys her and she rarely say anything!!!!) i think i have that ability to change but with limits that i dont made something 7arram our 3eb,and if we have differences in views the judge is our shari3a,

i hope i could change to suit her really

Answer 2

yes, all of us change all the time.
Life is teaching us everydays, and we learn from it. So, we have new experiences and new challenges .
The wise thing is to learn which of the new experiences are good and could help us in our interior grown up, and which are not that good or useless ones.
About to change for someone...I think we have to do it if we want that a relationship works, but that is not only "one way" street.....both have to change a bit if want a complete and sincere relation.
That is specially difficult in marriage. To live together is not an easy thing, and many times both have to do their best if they really love each other.
Only love isnt enough......there is needed much more than that, and if you dont work on it everydays, love ends.

Answer 3

Since I`am a person that's truly caring of very many things !!... Or lets just say I care more than I do'nt about ALOT of >stuff< !?! ;-D ... & depending on whatever it may be,'?'` May have me be reasonable!?! & I might ChAnGe a few this & that's ... Also it's some people that go to prison!! & by the time they are released a big change may happen for some !! SOo yes!! it's possible & does take place

Answer 4

Yes we do ....sometimes it's a slow process but inevitably we ALL change in time ! It's part of life...

You will find that as you learn , meet new people , form new r'ships , have different experiences ...all of these factors will have an influence on you & some will cause lifetime change.

The challenge is to change for the right reasons & make the right choices . Bless you..

Answer 5

Do people really change?

I believe something. I believe that every little event happens to us cause some change in us, the point is that the change may be too small to be noticed at once. For major events in our life, they have major impact, so we can easily notice such impacts. While for small events, which have small impacts, we just can't notice each impact once they take place, we may instead notice "accumulated small separate impacts" on the long run.



Do we have to change for the sake of those whom we love or we should "stick to" our original personality?

One should keep one's "core" personality "untouched", as long as they are sure it's right. However, changes that will not involve a change in that "core" is welcomed, especially for a special person to you.

Answer 6

Yes, people do change over time. To change someone to a better person, we ought to understand them in the first place. Not just accept what they do, but try to see the reasons behind their actions. The more you understand people, the more you could change them.

Answer 7

I found that someone of my friends in Y/A have changed...... now she doesn't talk with me anymore and I don't know why =0(

But about your question...... you can change for better but I do not agree to change for bad.

If someone loves you he or she must realize that they are accepting someone who is not perfect and if they love each other they should accept each other as they are.

Answer 8

Hey there ya Rana,

Yes people do change for the sake of their loved ones, but the trick is not to change too much or else you would loose yr personality and character and that is what made our, partners or friends, attracted to us in the first place.

Here change is more of an adaptation to what makes us at ease with each other, more open and loving.

Answer 9

Both. I have mostly stayed the same and my husband loves me the way I am, but I also changed in some really good ways.

Answer 10

Well it depends on the change. If someone wanted to change me so that they can love me for who they want me to be in their eyes, then that's not love.

Its good to change for the better, so if i liked someone who had a bad habit such as smoking, i would try and make them give it up. Or maybe if someone had a personality trait such as anger or greed or selfishness, I would try to change them.

In all fairness though, you shouldn't try and change the one you love or let yourself be changed for the one who loves you, if no good is going to come from it. Love is all about being with someone who you truly cherish.

But it is a fact of life that people change throughout life, be it in love or not.