please read this whole thing before you answer and dont be mean...this really is important.
Last year my older sister(melissa,19) married her boyfriend of 5 months (greg,20 yrs old). being married early they have had a bad marrige. about 6 months ago her husband had secs with her younger sister(kayla,18). her sister stoped it but never told anyone. 5 months later her other sister moves in (tiffany,14) kayla begins to think that tiffany and greg were having sex. one day kayla walked in on it happening and told them that she wouldnt tell as long as it stopped here and now. she has been worring what to do. a couple days later she talks to greg and he is acctualy starting to fall in like tiffany, the same as tiffany is in like with greg. but greg is married to melissa who is tiffanys sister and tiffany is only 14. kayla and tiffany need help to figure out what to do. PLEASE HELP. thank you for any advise.
2007-10-21 11:19:38 · 56 answers · asked by kingsholto 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tiffany is 14, greg is 20, sounds like the cops need to arrest greg for having sex with a minor. Please call cops.
2007-10-21 11:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by sillylittlemonkee 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
What this man is doing is against the law. Greg is a pedophile sexual preditor to keep having sex with a 14 yr old and he needs to be arrested. He married into this family to have sex with all the sisters. Everyone needs some type of counselling immediately. Tiffany needs to move back home with her parents. Kayla needs to leave Greg alone and do what she can to get Tiffany out of this situation. Melissa needs to divorce this pervert right now. A sister's husbands and boyfriends should be hands off to other sisters. Everybody needs to stay from around Greg and the sisters should learn kindness and love towards each other.
2007-10-21 11:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by merry59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Don't get married at 19. It's a little late to fix that one, but...
2. If your husband is shagging your sister he is a wrong un. It's that simple. But sometimes difficut to see and accept when you are very close to the problem.
3. The answer is also quite simple:
4. Leave now.
5.Divorce him on the grounds of adultery.
6. If he offers any objections, point out the Police would be very interested in the statutary rape of a 14 year old girl. (That's what they call sex with an underage girl and it's serious)
7. Be quite certain Greg will never change. I mean never.
8. People like Greg are trouble magnets. You can't fix them, but you can stop being part of it. Walk away. Fast.
2007-10-21 11:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, Kayla and Tiffany seem to be going through a lot being sisters. And my advise to you is tell them to leave Greg alone. He is not worth it. Tell them to get another boyfriend, around there age, who doesn't just want them for sex, but a nice relationship. Tell them to look for someone that would care for them. But on the other hand, people make mistakes, and I know they are up each others throats right now, so sit down with Kayla and Tiffany and tell them to never let no man or object come between a sister's love. Tell me how it works.
2007-10-21 11:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet cakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right 4 starters greg is 2 old 2 do anything with tiffany who is only 14! which is 2 young. the 2 sisters are wrong 4 even looking at there sisters husband in that way, and some1 needs 2 tell mellisa what a rat greg is so she can throw him out. + its really not fair on you that you know all this and have 2 keep it all quite
i really did try 2 be nice
2007-10-21 11:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by charlene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this isn't a prank question, this is a family needing love and to be accepted) so badly that they scrape the bottom of the barrel. BUT, the big thing is that, this guy has committed a crime. TIFFANY, being underage at 14, is protected by the law. If you don't turn this jerk in, he will go after anyone with a vagina (or not), even his own kids, and cousins, and so on. You may think you'll hurt your sister by turning him in, but you will be saving her a lifetime of misery.
Greg needs to be turned in, and you all need to be strong enough to do it. NOW!
I know a similar situation, and it recently blew up in everyone's face. In trying to protect one sister, everyone suffered. There is no easy way with this. Stop Greg from having a sex farm at his disposal and get him incarcerated. If the girls won't testify, it doesn't matter. The state will go after him representing Tiffany,as she is underage.
Good luck. PLEASE turn him in. Or how many other girls does he have to hurt before someone gets brave.
2007-10-21 11:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by dutchlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow- interesting situation. First off, Tiffany is 14 years old and Greg is 20 years old- that is completely illegal and so wrong. You need to tell Greg that if he doesn't stop that you will call the police on him or tell his wife/your sister what has been going on between Tiffany and him. Your sister deserves to be with a guy who loves her and only her- and Greg is cheating on her so I think Melissa needs to know.
Both of you should feel terrible for sleeping with your sister's husband, by the way. That is just terrible.
You both need to set up a meeting with Melissa and tell her what has been going on because she deserves to know that her husband is cheating on her (especially with a minor!).
As for Greg, he needs to get psychological help because he has a thing for underage girls and is acting on those feelings- Tiffany is just a child and should not be having sexual relationships in the first place.
2007-10-21 11:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by Madison 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kayla and Tiffany need to sit down with Melissa and tell her what is going on so she can throw her no good husband out of the house for good. She will be upset with both of her sisters but hopefully she will forgive them for they are young and naive. But, Greg has got to go. Also, with Greg's history of cheating, all 3 sisters should be checked for STDs.
2007-10-21 11:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by Maureen S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First it is unfair of Greg, Kayla and Tiffany to cheat on your elder sister Melissa. I think Kayla and Tiffany should talk to Melissa about it, so that Greg can go out of everyone's lives. If he had loved Melissa, he would not have seduced Kayla and Tiffany. As for Tiffany, isint she young for all of this ?
2007-10-21 11:27:04 · answer #9 · answered by tgssoft 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief what a mess. Anyway, first of all, Kayla has to insist that Tiffany goes to the police and reports it as a rape. She is underage. Melissa will get to find out and then all hell will break loose. They will probably have no relationship at all. But at least the skunk Greg will be in jail.
2007-10-21 11:23:49 · answer #10 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
kayla and tiffany need to stop it themselves not their older sister and melissa needs to tell someone about the problem going on with greg and her two younger sisters that way she know what to do and greg needs to quit having sex with underage kids cause if not someone is going to get him for raping a minor and then you parents would get mad and stop melissa from coming over and ur parents would probably kick her out of her lives
2007-10-21 11:25:57 · answer #11 · answered by flickadreamergirl2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋