Guilty and Homosexuality?

Question

I'm gay. I feel gulity. I believe in God.
And I also believe in the Bible.

People say it's what god made what it is but maybe it isn't. Maybe it's just rationalize ourselves. I don't what is true. It's matter of choice. Someone choose to believe it and someone don't.
And I decided to believe it.(Please don't say anyting about my choice. Gay cummunites are trying to say that people are different and we have right to choose about ourselves. So I have every right to make choice for myself.)

But that means I have to give up Sex, My own family, love... .Don't say I can't be straight that's impossible. It's not something you can change.


I'm really serious about it. Lately I'm thinking about surgical options. Like Remove my prostate And vasectomy. So I don't have to tempted. People are fragile to temptation. Is it bad idea? I don' want to have child.

I just want to know what you guys think about it. Is it stupid?

Answer 1

Yes, it's ridiculous and harmful!!!

Here are some websites you might actually find helpful in your struggle to reconcile your faith with your sexuality:

WhoSoEver.org
http://whosoever.org/bible/

A Letter To Louise
http://godmademegay.com/

Gay Christian Network
http://www.gaychristian.net/

Gay Bible Christians
http://www.gaybiblechristians.org/g

Gay Christians . Com
http://www.christiangays.com/

Metropolitan Community Church (a Gay affirming, Brick and Mortor Church )
http://www.mccchurch.org/AM/Template.cfm?Section=Home
(you can find one near you.)

Answer 2

Excuse me... Having a vasectomy does not having anything to do with removing temptation. You will have the same sex drive as before the vasectomy. Having a vasectomy means you won't get a woman pregnant if you have sex with her. In your case, there is no danger of getting a woman pregnant. That is why gays don't get, or need vasectomies, and straight guys do.

Also getting your prostate removed will not affect your sex life or sex drive.

Answer 3

I've also just recently come to terms with my homosexuality... Have spent the past ten years feeling guilty, dirty and shameful. However, i have accepted myself as the person that God created. I have prayed every single night since i first felt homosexual desires (+-10years) pleading to be straight. This did not happen, so i've come to terms with it. I've told my brother and some close friends, all of whom have been incredibly accepting. I'm waiting to tell my mother (i'm at university away from home, and this isn't really an over-the-phone conversation). You need to do what makes you happy and start living for yourself, otherwise you'll be miserable.

Answer 4

Wow sounds like some serious stuff you got going on there. I just accepted myself not too long ago. I don't think you have a reason to feel guilty. I think you're taking this entirely to seriously. You can't please everybody so do what you think is right for you. Don't worry about everyone else. Gay, straight, or whatever, we all get criticized everyday. Best of luck to you.

Answer 5

not totally sure i understand you, but if you do believe in God and have been in the word, you know nothing is too hard for God. Your desires are yours and like everyone else we have our areas of temptation and weaknesses, struggles. But we are in this fight with help. God spoke his mind concerning homosexuality and drunkeness, and sexual relationships, etc, and he's not changing his mind, but he helps. I'm reading a book called "single, saved, and having sex" by ty adams, and it has helped my understanding, because i fight against sex bondage in my own life. Some days are harder than others, but just like with any other sin in my life, it's all unacceptable and i will give up standing against it. Noone's perfect and some things take time, and lots of prayer, remembers Paul's thorn in his flesh, but we fight on. Don't let your struggles be your soul focus, remember God is a big God, reflect on the other areas of your life and remember to be thankful. he is faithful. prayin 4 you.

Answer 6

I reject those who reject me. There are Gay Christians and Jews. There are Gay muslims too but they are usually tortured and killed. I suggest you seek out a religious denomination that is gay friendly and join that church.

Answer 7

I understand why you conclude that you need to give up some things, but why do you have to give up your family?

Do they follow the Old Testament?

Answer 8

I would recommend you to leave Christianity. Don't associate with groups that doesn't accept you for whom you are.