My husband and Ed vacationed together in San Fran and did not tell me, does this mean they are gay?

Answer 1

It sounds very suspicious to me especially since he didn't tell you. You can ask him but he may deny it. Thats what happened to my ex. I found out 10 months after he left me that he was gay. We had been married for 23 years at the time. I don't know what to tell you I guess just ask him and hopefully he will be truthful with you. Good Luck............

Answer 2

1) Why do you even think he went with Ed? Perhaps now that he got caught, he is using Ed as a cover. Cheating is cheating, gay or not.
2) If you are married or in a committed relationship, whether he went with Ed or not, you have an issue. When you are doing something fun or enjoyable, you want to tell one of the most important people in your life. He is either cheating, or does not feel as strong about you as you do for him, or somehow he feels that you view fun things negatively, and is on the way to ending the relationship.

Answer 3

i think of it became a great theory to ask to tag alongside! that's many times greater exciting to shuttle with somebody, that way you are able to communicate for thepersistent or flight, and you have somebody to sightsee with who may well be attentive to the section (considering the fact that his kinfolk lives there) that's constantly great once you don't be attentive to the section you're vacationing...OH, you advise the gay section? San Francisco is an exceedingly gay friendly section so your straight away pal might certainly get to be sure some gays of their organic habitat.... Are you particularly severe? i'm no longer gay yet who cares in the event that they share a room? lodges are high priced! advance up already!

Answer 4

Possibly.
San Fran is the city of Gays. No joke.
However, maybe they just wanted some alone time away from their wives.
So many scenarios could've occured.
They could have a gay relationship.. or they could've had strippers over, for all you know.
So...

Answer 5

Is there any reason he would feel the need to not tell you? Maybe they didn't actually vacation together. Maybe he vacationed with someone else...and said it was Ed because it was a convenient lie. Maybe they wanted time to do guy things...sports, women, sports, drinking, sports...and you don't let him do that anymore. It is not enough information do draw any conclusions.

Answer 6

Many gay men will date and marry straight women to fit into society (I've seen it and been there too.) Unfortunately talking to them about it may not help. Look to other things in your lives, habits, hobbies, interactions.

Besides the gay issue, you have the real problem of your husband not telling you about major activities in his life. Counseling may help. Maybe real a heart to heart talk, if he realizes how important it is to you.

Answer 7

I would say yes because that is really strange behavior. Number one, they didn't tell you and #2 they went to San Francisco. It would be different had they gone on a fishing trip or something!

Answer 8

The odds are yes. I live in the area and it is very popular with gay couples, one of the few cities where anything goes.

Answer 9

WELL SAN FRAN IS LIKE THE BIGGEST GAY FEST EVER. BUT IT DEPENDS IF HE GAVE U SIGNS BEFORE. CONFRONT HIM AND TELL HIM IN A NICE WAY IF HES GAY TELL HIM I NEED U TO BE HONEST WITH ME AND YOURSELF AND SAY ARE U GAY!

Answer 10

GAY definetly GAY especialy if he didnt tell you ,wait did this happen durring your marriage ,cuz if it did then definately GAY.ask ED if he is gay/frooty.