I have been married for 12 years . I assumed we were meant for each other. we have agreed to separate, but cant because of finances. part of our problem.I love my wife completely.how do i leave my whole life wife ,kids,home, behind ?
2007-10-21 10:12:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is a tough one and I guess I have to ask if you still love your wife does she still love you and if that is the case is seperation the only answer. Have you tried couples therapy or councelling. I guess my advise especially when children are involved is that both parties really try everything they can to mend the marriage before walking out. Divorce now a days happens all to often and is a little too easy of an answer. It affects the kids even though they dont express it because they love you both and dont want to see either of you unhappy. Please just consider all your options before taking this final step.
I wish you the best and let me know how you are doing.
2007-10-21 10:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her then why do you have to leave her?
Why can't the two of you see a marriage counselor.. some therapy for the two of you could really help. I think the issue hear is communication, or the lack thereof.
If you two get professional help, you can probably work things out and save your marriage..
2007-10-21 10:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And afterwords too, and in court, I was married for 31 years, the divorce is in the court system for over two years, I'm disabled and I could do this, it's hard but to me well worth it.
2007-10-21 10:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one baby step at a time...find a counselor to help you thru the transition....
2007-10-21 12:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by that judi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋