Me and 2 of my bestfriends had a friend but then we stopped liking her and we're not friends anymore. and now she told 2 of her new friends that we were talking !@#$ about her, but we're not. and the two big tough girls came up to us at a carnival and started saying "y u tlking !@#$?? we're gonan kick all of your @ss's! just watch out !@#$" and then my friend is like F!@# U! and she came back and pushed her! nd this guy saw & was like dont fight, break it up. so now at school we dont know wats gonna happen. what should we do?? we're in 8th grade and havent had any problems and dont wanna get into a fight. like how can we defend ourselves? lots of our friends hate those girls too! PLEASE HELP!
2007-10-21 09:01:42 · 9 answers · asked by girl with skillz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well that time we tried walking away but they followed us and kept saying bad words and trying to push us around! and im getting really pissd off cuz the girl we're not friends with doesnt have the guts to go up to us, so she sends her stupid 2 friends!
2007-10-21 09:11:37 · update #1
get some mace or pepper spray, tell them you're not interested in fighting them. If their not interested in your side of the story, then you have no time for them. Then if they still hit you and ONLY if they attack you spray them.
If you do it this way you won't get in trouble for spraying them, you would have witnesses because everyone gathers when there is going to be a fight. All those witnesses will hear you say that you weren't interested in fighting them, and whatever problem you had with your former friend is between you and her and not them. That way they look like the bullies (which they are if they still persist with conflict) and you are the victim, you were just defending yourself. Since you don't know these girls, even if you know their names just say you don't know them because that is called felonious assault, and they will get in way more trouble than you. I know you said you're only in the 8th grade, this may sound real grown up to you but it works in both the kid world and the adult world.
I give you this advice because it sounds like these girls are going to do something to you no matter where or when they see you, so if it happens away from school grounds these girls will be in major trouble. Good luck, I hope after you tell them, what ever problem your former friend had is just between you and her they back down.
2007-10-21 11:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by Miss 6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been where you are before, not that long ago, anyhow, what I would do is if you or your friends know these girls by name, or what classes they are in, go to your principal, or your counselor, let your principal or counselor know what is going on, If possible, take a parent with you. You can have them pulled out of class and have this situation sqaushed with parents and proper authorities in school. Let your counselor and/or principal know that it is not by mistake that you (and your friends) havent had any trouble in school so far, and thats how you want to keep it.
I commend you for acting your age and trying to put a stop to some violence that could probably escalate to something worse than words and fighting. Now if only everybody else had that much sense.....Peace.
2007-10-21 09:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by mizpeaches518 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are that scared about it, than see the faculty in your school for assistance. They should be able to stop anything from happening in or near school. As far as the weekends, never travel alone I guess. Since all of your friends hate these girls also, stay with a large group of them at times so this big girls won't start nothing.
2007-10-21 09:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by Mikey Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time it happens, walk away. If you don't feel bad about it, I urge you to tell a teacher and/or talk the girl behind all of this. I've been in the situation, when I was 13, it doesn't get better if you just let it escalate. It can get worse and worse. Trust me.
2007-10-21 09:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, She has the rights to fight you! you just doun super judgemental. and probably i already dislike you because Judgemental people go no where, But the trouble zone. You may think your pretty and all, But i'm sure of that heart of yours isn't good enough to be sweet. And First of all, Missy nobody dumb okay? Get that shxt straight, If you think she dumb have you seen her do anything dumb? cause i asure you, nobody dumb here on earth people just make themself look dumb because that's an option they chose! So get a fxcking life and learn to respect yoour peers because you do sound like a ungrateful brat with no heart! and when i mean get a "Fxcking life" I mean, To start growing up and give up that damn personality of yours because i'm sure noone going to accpet you like that.
2016-05-24 01:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm..either you can try and avoid her like if you see her in the hallways then walk the other way..or you could tell a teacher and walk near a teacher in the hallways..or you could just fight them? but youll probly get suspended so just always be near a crowd and near teachers
2007-10-21 09:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away from them
2007-10-21 09:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray, that's all you can do without getting in trouble!
2007-10-21 09:05:09 · answer #8 · answered by Gracie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta tell someone before something serious happen!!
2007-10-21 11:38:14 · answer #9 · answered by Kaara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋