I say shes pregnant but theres still hope. She says shes irregular but even so its been 4 days (today being #4) since it was supposed to come. Shes stressing alot about it and so am I. I hear this could delay it. We were stupid and tried unprotected sex using the pull-out method. Which I now think is just stupid. DONT EVER DO THE P ULL OUT METHOD. USE PROTECTION. I'm scared. She's scared. If shes pregnant what can we do? Is there like some pills you can take? (Shes in her "first trimester.") Something to stop her from having the kid? We're not ready.
2007-10-21 08:10:31 · 17 answers · asked by Pee Diddle 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
There's the day after emergency pill, but it sounds like its too late for that. Get to a doctor or center like Planned Parenthood and find out if she really is pregnant. Then they will discuss all the options you have, such as, adoption, abortion or going through with the pregnancy and keeping the baby. I know some great parents who had children very young. Now they're older and glad they went through with it. Weigh all your options. On the bright side...you get one out of the way early in life. You can be the young "cool" parents when your child hits high school. Whatever you do...weigh all options before making a decision. Good luck!
2007-10-21 08:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by J9 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For the person that said to get the Morning after pill: You need to do some rearch. The pill can only be taken within 72 hours of unprotected sex. It will not abort an existing pregnancy. It just keeps the fertilized egg from implanting in the uterus.
If she is pregnant talk to someone at an adoption agency. There are so many women that cannot get pregnant and would LOVE to adopt a newborn. This would be the greatest and kindest thing that you could do for these women and your baby. A baby's heart starts beating 22 days after conception. For the girl above me that stated that you can have symptoms 48 hours after sex is WAY off. Implantation doesn't even take place until 7-10 days after the egg is fertilized, which can be up to 24 hours after sex, so that is the VERY earliest that symptoms can be felt.
2007-10-21 15:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am in the same boat, I have heard it said that you can have pregnancy symptoms up to 48 hours after intercourse, stuff like, constant urination, and bloating and fatigue... I am so scared me, and my friend had intercourse friday night and it is sunday, and I have all of these symptoms. I am 18.. but we used the pull out method too, and I dont think it worked because he ended up doing it inside me. But what I think you should do is, you and your girl, go to a clinic, and ask them what you should do if you oth know that your not ready... there are some pills out there that you can take for the baby to come up as a miscarraige. But again ask the clinic. And if you need a clinic to go to, search it on map quest or yahoo something from where you live, and explain the situation to the people there. There are other ways besides abortion, which I dont believe in. But just ask for the pills and let her tkae them, and she will begin her period and the baby will be flushed out. That is the best thing I can describe to you. Good luck, and I hope you find what your looking for.
Jessica.
2007-10-21 15:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by ◕‿◕ 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Before the two of you panic, have her take a pregnancy test because if she isn't pregnant, it will say negative, and most women end up getting their period within that same day. It's due to the fact that stress postpones your period and once the stress is gone from thinking you're pregnant, you get your period. If she is pregnant, there is the RU486 pill, also known as the abortion pill. You can take it up intil 8 weeks of being pregnant and it costs about $200.
2007-10-21 16:06:53 · answer #4 · answered by Karla 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, calm down. First you need to find out if she really is pregnant. Wait about 2 weeks after you have had sex, then take a home pregnancy test. If it comes out negative, but you are still worried, go to the doctor and have her get a blood test. If she is pregnant, she can get an abortion. And if she doesn't want to go through with an abortion, she can have the child and just give it up for adoption. You should always use a condom, that was incredibly stupid of you. Go to this website, it will help you with anything else and you can talk to people on there who can help you.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
Everything will be ok. Just stay calm.
2007-10-21 15:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You knew before you tried the(pull out),That there where duties that followed. O' yes yous scared and blah blah blah,you wanna get rid of it the quickest way well some one should get rid of you sorry no parenting a**. I can't stand people like ya'll there are so many people out in the world who try so hard and are finacil able to do for a child,god makes everything happend fore a reason,you and your sex buddy need to think about playing while having sex it's not a game lives are at stake!
2007-10-21 15:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by so curious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is pregnant it is too late for her to take any pill to "stop it". Once you're pregnant there is no "stopping" it, there is abortion but depending on what state you live in she may need parental consent or at least her parents would have to be notified. Yeah you were stupid, and obviously too young to have sex.
2007-10-21 22:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately in the US they don't have abortion pills. IF she is pregnant she'd have to have surgery at this point. Since she is 4 days overdue for her period stop stressing and run to the drugstore. Buy a pregnancy test and have her take it. If she is pregnant the positive will show by now. Otherwise your right she's overstressing and that will delay a girl's cycle.
Good to see you've figured out how messed up not using protection can be!
2007-10-21 15:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by starfire978 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋
She can put the baby up for adoption.
Has she taken a test? If she's 4 days late she can totally take a test.
2007-10-21 15:16:22 · answer #9 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm guessing you're a troll, but for anyone who isn't and is in the same boat... call an abortion clinic, go to said abortion clinic, and quit having sex.
2007-10-21 15:16:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋