how can we help her get it out in the open
2007-10-21 08:04:41 · 15 answers · asked by Louis M 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i caught her kissing my x girlfriend but she denies it help
2007-10-21 08:10:09 · update #1
She will tell you when shes ready
2007-10-21 08:06:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
don't pressure her she will tell you in her own good time, it does not mean she likes men any less, but i do think that this is your sisters private business and should remain so, any questioning could lead to your sister being embarrassed, leave her to her own private life and if she has anything to tell you she will tell you when she is ready and if she doesn't then just put it down to one of those things she was curious about.
2007-10-22 07:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by fruitcake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she isn't ready to yet alot of people need to wait untill they feel comortable or ready in life untill they will tell people so don't push her thats mean just leave her be she will come around when she is good and ready.
2007-10-21 15:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
U cant force her to admit it really fast she needs to get used to it. And maybe shes scared to see what other people might think. So just try to encourage her that everything is gonna be fine.
2007-10-21 15:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Same sex interest, same sex admiration, these are not the same as same sex copulation. Perhaps you read more into the matter than deserves. Friends can be friends and not lovers, but the love of friends to friends can be extremely strong and not necessarily be sexual. Perhaps you are seeing something you want to see. She may not have anything to admit to.
2007-10-21 15:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she is bi rather than lesbian and doesn't want to come out because at some point in the future she will prefer men.
2007-10-21 15:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by Phil McCracken 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, dont scare her in way as in *YOUR A LESBIAN* be calm, tell her its ok just tell me, if she doesnt admit to it after a long time, then she isnt, but i mean be calm, just act as if she is, make obviouse remarks, like yea but ur a leasbian, you know point it out, and pretend you know she is, make it a fact in ur brain, and make sure she knows u think she is a lesbian 100 percent, then she would come out to the open and say somthing like *so wat* u get me lol :D
2007-10-21 15:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by StArZ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she isn't. What makes you think shes attracted to women? You're impossible!
2007-10-21 15:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by B 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
you said to anyone, if she hasn't told you you don't know that for sure, if she has she's probably on the way to telling someone else.
-just be supportive.
2007-10-21 15:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
when she is ready she will let everyone know you cant be rushing people because you do not know what the outcome will be for them. she is not you and you are not her.
2007-10-21 15:09:51 · answer #10 · answered by puerto rifa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋