I like girls and I'm totally straight. last night my friend kissed me and we just made out 4 almost 5 minutes. but he said we can do more than that.part of me wants to see what it's like to be with a guy but i'm afraid of becoming bisexual.
2007-10-21 06:55:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You can't be "totally straight" and enjoy kissing guys..
You aren't becoming gay.. not only does one not become gay, but you're attracted to girls, so you're at least bisexual.
Don't be afraid, just go with what feels right. Never worry about the labels.
2007-10-21 06:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you enjoyed kissing him.
You made out for 5 minutes. If you did not enjoy it you would have stopped.
Now you want to do more.
I think you have answered your own question; you are bi (or possibly gay, depending on your attraction to girls)
You no have a question to ask yourself: how far are you willing to go, not in terms of your sexuality, but morally.
Be careful about simply giving yourself to a guy sexually, you deserve better than simply to give your body randomly for somebody's use. The sexual union is a big step, and very complex emotionally.
If you are going to do more with him, you need to establish in your own heart how far you will go, where your personal boundaries are, and then tell him what those boundaries are.
Because if you don't set the boundaries now, in the heat of passion you may end up doing things that you come to regret.
2007-10-21 07:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by 1Up 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You cannot become bisexual. You are what you are. If you are straight, you are straight. Kissing doesn't change anything. Neither does doing more. Your desires won't change any. It will be like masturbating, but with a friend to help. I had straight friends that liked me to give them pleasure when I was young, I did. They enjoyed it, and asked often. They were and are straight. Our friendship was and is tight. It isn't the actions you partake in, its your preference that determines whether you are gay or straight or bi. Don't sweat silly things.
Kind thoughts,
Reyn
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2007-10-21 07:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u like both sexes, that's ok. But just because you made out with a guy, doesn't exactly mean you are bisexual. You could be bi-curious. Try kissing a girl. Then your friend again and see what you like more. That could be a way to discover your sexuality.
2007-10-21 07:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by Gianfi 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i do not think that makes you gay, or really bisexual, just do what you feel is right and listen to your heart. kissing does not make you gay or bisexual only doing more than that does. so until right now you are straight, but if you want to be someone else that is ok , some people think it is wrong but most people like me do not think it is wrong to be gay, lesbian, or bisexual, and i am straight, but do whatever you think feels right. :-)
2007-10-21 07:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by Sarmanoosh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry, being bisexual isnt bad. im sorry to say but you are not "totally straight" if you like to kiss guys.
2007-10-21 09:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by Ryann... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a st8 guy would not have done this at all. It's not who he is. The fact that you kissed a guy at all means that you're open to it, so go ahead: give yourself permission to find the real you. It's OK. You are who you are.
2007-10-21 13:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with what feels right with you. It sounds like you are bi. There is nothing wrong with that. You are curious about your body and how you feel. You are curious, and you need to be curious in order to find your answer. I hope everything goes well for you!
2007-10-21 07:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by Christine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be afraid to be what you really feel.. to kiss a guy once in your life.. doesnt make you gay or bi.. if you really dont like...those things.. so dont do it again... and you are not gonna be bi... if you liked that thing.. then you can become bi but not always.. just sometimes..
2007-10-21 07:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
then don't kiss guys.
If you are a teenager, no one and I do mean no one has the right to encourage you to proceed any further.
This is your decision. It's either you want to proceed and experiment or you do not want to. YOUR CHOICE
2007-10-21 07:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by Wayne 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋