1. close friend
2. boyfriend / girlfriend
3. lover / friend with benefits
4. partner / spouse
5. family - mother, father, brother, sister
You don't need to answer all of the above - just answer any that appeal to you. Thanks very much for your participation.
2007-10-21 03:58:25 · 7 answers · asked by happy inside 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
The hardest to deal with is rejection by parents, siblings and spouse. You have the most invested in these relationships. It may take time and therapy to work through these rejections. Friends are not fun to be rejected by but you have a lot less invested in these relationships. You can always make new friends. Examine the reason that they give you for the rejection. If it's legitimate try to change how you act in the future. If it's illogical, chalk it up to their loss and get on with life.
2007-10-21 04:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by Diane M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
**in all these cases, try to reach out first but nothing works...
close friend - look for a new one
bf/gf/lover - ignore them. show them that your world doesn't revolve around them and that you can live on your without them.
spouse - ignore them too! i mean, not cuz you're married means they can just do anything and reject you and expect you to be there all the time.
family - this is one thing I cannot ignore. try to reach out and find out why. family is the only ones you've got. i mean, you can always find new friends or lovers but never your own blood. sounds cheezy but family is a big thing for me
2007-10-21 11:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am currently being rejected by my twin sister - she
is divorced and moving out of state and bringing her
grown daughters. The way I cope - I am trying to better
my life and keep in control of my finances and trying to
be happy in my own life.
2007-10-21 11:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by judy f 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. close friend - say goodbye and make new friends.
2. boyfriend - sigh of relief; he did you a favor.
3. lover - tears followed by acceptance.
4. spouse - grief, forgiveness and recovery.
5. family - love, no matter what.
C. :)!!
2007-10-21 11:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. close friend -> say: ah well, she's gone too
2. boyfriend -> he doesn't want me, then fine! i don't want him either
3. lover -> i knew this was not supposed to last for long, goodbye, we've shared nice moments
4. partner -> time to move on with my life, i still have a lot to live and do
5. family -> couldn't cope with
2007-10-21 11:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by Analyst 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would feel terrible, if i was rejected by ,any of the above.
2007-10-21 14:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2. boyfriend - despise them, take revenge, and move onto someone new
5. family - drop them immediately and cease all contact
2007-10-21 11:02:28 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Revenge 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋