So i'm thirteen and i'm dating the nicest. most kind, caring and loving guy. We've been dating about a year. We've done some stuff and we both want to go furthur. We want to have sex but were not sure if were too young. I know this is gonna sound like the same 'ol BS but we love each other so much that we are probably going to do it anyway, but i just want to know if people think were way to young.
2007-10-21 03:52:28 · 13 answers · asked by Cassidy B 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
first of all, whether you are too young or not in my opinion does not matter. You already stated that you are "probably going to do it anyways". But the fact that you are asking this question and how you asked it is what makes me worry. YOU obviously are not ready if you said yourself "Am I ready? IDK?" If you are not 100% sure, wait. If he is such a great guy, he will have no problem with that. He will wait for you. And if you two are going to be together forever, you have all the time in the world to become sexually active. Don't push yourself into doing something that you aren't 100% sure of. Wait. Take this advice from someone that lost her virginity before she was ready. It is something that you can never get back and you should be completely ready, without a question, to have sex. You shouldn't need to go to Yahoo Answers to make sure that you are ready.
2007-10-21 03:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
Well im 13 to and for one thing i know its against the law to do IT until your 16.
Ofcourse, most people do it before.
Well no-one on yahoo answers can tell you the right answer that willl be best for you but i can tell you to actually talk about it to him.
If hes really that nice he'l understand what you mean, i mean hes not the one with the risk of becoming pregnant :)
Talk it through, then decide, if not sure even then ask your parents, talk about it to them, atleast if you become pregnant ( I know its far off but you never know ) they wont be as shocked and will be able to help you better x
Really, seriousely think about it, you know what you want to do, its your life , virginity is a big thing, once its lost you cant get it back x
I know its not good taking advice from someone who hasnt been kissed yet but yeah :)
2007-10-21 06:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are way way too young to have sex.
1. Are you ready to take responsibility of the care of a baby?
2. Is your guy ready to take responsibility of the care of a baby?
3. Are your or your guy ready to handle any STD's?
4. You need to get on birth control. HE needs to use a condom.
You are way too young. How old is he?
You are in NO financial shape to take the consequences of having sex (baby!!). You are not emotionally or physically ready either.
If he is the "perfect" guy for you, and you both love each other so much, you guys will WAIT until you are older and ready to deal with the consequences of having sex.
2007-10-21 04:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You have to be 16 to have sex legally in the UK.
13 is way to young - what if you became pregnant?
Could you look after a baby and still get an education????
If he really is the 'perfect' guy for you, he won't be bothered about waiting - and you don't sound completely ready yourself otherwise you wouldn't be asking.
Wait another 4 years - then see.
2007-10-21 04:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by gemstone 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are WAY too young. Don't jump into things because you will end up regreting what you've done when you were young, when your older. Take advice from me and any other adult on here. Your risking you chance of getting an STD and getting pregnant. Your both way too young to know what to do when it comes to sex.
2007-10-21 04:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-09 02:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by lizarraga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 19 when I lost my virginity and I want to tell you that afterwards I felt so different..I was no longer playful anymore I felt so grown...also I am 24 now and me and the guy broke up almost 3 years ago....I think you should wait I know I wish I could have...just spend a day with a baby and see how you feel after that.....hope this helps
2007-10-21 04:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by JustChillin 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At age 13 you are still a child, nowhere ready to have sex. Sex is for mature, consenting adults who will be able to handle the responsibilities that come with having sex, physically and emotionally.
You are too young.
2007-10-21 04:08:22 · answer #8 · answered by AV 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
are you nearly 14? just turned 14? what?
have you or your boyfriend done other things with each other?? I would wait until your at least 14 and a half. You're clearly not fully developed at your age to be having sex and if anything goes wrong, you are not responsible enough to take action. I would wait a while before doing anything like that. If you really love each other you will wait and respect each other until you are SURE you are ready.
2007-10-21 03:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I hate tell you, you are not ready taking a responsible. Because, you're too young. If I were you to wait for while. Your body still development. It will take time to development your body till you reach 18 or so.
2007-10-21 04:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by sabrinaelder 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋