I miscarried triplets when I was 13 weeks pregnant. I saw all three come out of me. It was depressing. My water had broke the day before. It was a complete miscarriage. I want to get pregnant almost immediately because I am so depressed. If I get pregnant too soon, will I miscarry? What's the shortest time I can wait to get pregnant again?
2007-10-21 03:49:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
2 months ago you claimed a twins miscarriage and now you talk about triplets... are you for real
I am reporting you!
2007-10-23 21:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I have to disagree with most of the other answers, purely because I had a miscarriage back in May and I felt really low after which is obviously normal and my doctor said that there is no reason why I shouldn't try again immediately (without a period in between) and that it would NOT increase my chances of miscarrying again! So I did get pregnant immediately and am now 22 weeks pregnant! I think you should follow your heart, if you feel that getting pregnant again would help to heal your loss, which is how I felt, then I would go for it! I still feel sad for the baby I lost but it has helped so much by being pregnant again because I've had this pregnancy and baby to concentrate on! My thoughts and hugs are with you! Please think about what you feel is best and follow your heart, everyones different and deals with things differently so you can only go by your own emotion! Good luck! XXX
2007-10-21 05:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont take any notice of that first answer, some people have absolutely NO feelings!!!!!!
I am SO sorry for your losses i miscarried one at 6 weeks and that was awful enough so god only knows how your managing, listen if you want to try then you try, i completely understand how much you want to try straight away, i did too and i still am but hoping this month is my month!!
If that's your way of dealing with your losses then you do it and dint let anyone else tell you any different.
And no you wont be likely to miscarry again because you had one before, there is a perfectly good reason why everyone loses their babies you could easily go on to have a completely healthy pregnancy and child after this, really good luck to you and i hope it all goes well xx
2007-10-21 04:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I waited two months after I miscarried at 13 weeks. My baby is due in December and she's healthy. The earlier you miscarry the sooner I believe it's safe to concieve again, since you were only 13 weeks you can probably try again with your next ovulation. Just because you miscarried once, does not increase your chance of miscarriage again. It's still the same odds. Good Luck!
2007-10-21 04:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss. That must have been devastating. I understand why you would want to get pregnant again very soon, but it is advised that you wait a couple of cycles simply to let your body heal and give you a higher chance of a healthy pregnancy. If you get pregnant again right away, then your chance of a repeat miscarriage is higher. Ask your doctor about his/her recommendation about the shortest time you can wait.
Best wishes.
http://www.americanpregnancy.org/pregnancyloss/mcgettingpregnantagain.html
2007-10-21 03:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs.P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a miscarriage in November at five weeks and my dr said to wait a full cycle. The first period is pretty painful I suggest at least waiting through that one. I am on my third cycle and am hoping to be pregnant this time. So whenever you feel ready go for it. Most of the waiting is for you to recover emotionally. Good luck!
2016-05-24 00:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by aline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My doctor told me to wait at least one full cycle, but i only had one and was not as far a 13 weeks. Your best to speck to your doctor as they have your notes and be able to advise best. You need to make sure your ready both psyically and emotionally. Their is no reason to think that you will have another miscarriage. Some people say you will and other say you wont. But theirs plenty off women who conceive almost striaght away. i have also heard your more fertile the 1st three months after miscarriage as your body is already in shape to start a pregnancy. the most important thing is that you feel ready inside. No doctor or no on here can tell you that!
2007-10-21 04:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by Littleblonde-kacey is here 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your doctor. However, four months is usually the recommendation.
I'm sorry for your loss. Give your body time to heal before you try again. Miscarriage in the first trimester usually indicates that there may have been something wrong with the babies. Talk to your ob/gyn and get answers to all your questions. S/he should have offered to tell you why this happened.
2007-10-21 04:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't get pregnant again right away just because your depressed about the loss of your triplets. It's going to be harder on you if you get pregnant right away and if something was to happen. I would suggest waiting 2 or 3 months let your body recover and let you recover as well.
I'm so so so sorry for your loss!
2007-10-21 03:55:58 · answer #9 · answered by Lovemykids 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can get pregnant straight away if you feel ready for it. My 1st and 2nd pregnacy ended in m/c and it took me 3 months and 4 months to conceive again. All the best and sorry for your loss.
2007-10-21 15:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get pregnant right away- you are really increasing your chances of losing the baby again.
MIssed m/c or those under 6 weeks- you can try again with your next regular period.
Other first trimester losses should wait 3 months.
2nd trimester losses (which I would consider yours) should wait 6 months. I know it's a long time- I had to do it myself just recently.
3 trimester or stillbirth- one full year.
I suggest you pick up the book "empty cradle- broken heart, surviving the death of your baby". It helped me a lot and it may help you with your desire to conceive before it's safe.
2007-10-21 03:57:15 · answer #11 · answered by iampatsajak 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋