How and what is the proper way to pee in a urinal? How can u prevent embarrassment?

Question

I am already a young adult but I've never used a urinal before, only the cubicle. Dad has never taught me how to pee properly - it is very embarassing!
I heard that one has to unzip the fly, take it out and pee. However, there is a problem - I have a lot of pubes and they sometimes come out when this is done. Also, do I have to take out my two boys as well, or leave them inside?
Another thing - there is a button on the top of the fly of trousers or jeans. Do I have to unbutton it when peeing, or just leave it there?
Also, how can I prevent other guys from peeking at me when peeing? Do I use both hands to cover my junk?
Honest answers please and no laughing! I'm serious.

Answer 1

Trim up your pubes, a lot of pube hair is unattractive.

Leave your balls in your pants, why would you even think about taking them out?

Yes, unbotton while peeing or you'll look strange.

Don't look at other guys and I'm sure they won't look at you. I think you should avoid all eye contact....

Answer 2

I'll try to answer your question in the stages that you asked it.
It probably didn't occur to your father that he had to teach you how to pee. It is logical that you stand at the urinal, unzip, take out your equipment and just start peeing! That is the usual routine. Some guys whistle while they do it, others release a huge sigh of relief when they start.
To avoid getting your pubes caught in your zipper, you might want to consider trimming them shorter. This is perfectly normal - a lot of guys do this. Your balls can stay inside, or come out, it doesnt matter, whichever is more convenient.
Its unlikely the guys next to you will look at your 'junk' anyway. But you could position your hands in such a way to reduce how visible your penis is.
PS Always make a beline for the most isolated urinal at first to build your confidence up ;-) But most of all just remember: peeing in a urinal is no big deal.

Answer 3

Stan, urinals are a great convenience that only we guys are privileged to use. Stand close (there is an old saying:"The shorter the bat, the closer the plate.") and pull your unit out as far as it will come. Leave your "boys" inside your pants and keep your top button done. Be sure to shake all droplets off the end before stuffing it all carefully back in and zipping up.(You definitely don't want to catch anything in the zipper.)
I personally, have never gotten used to the trough style urinal. If you suffer from what is commonly called "bashful kidneys" or if you don't want other guys admiring your tool, just use the toilet in a stall.

Answer 4

1) If you are worried about your pubes getting in the way, you could always trim them down. It's better to keep them trimmed anyway because it looks better and it's more hygenic.

2) It's up to you whether or not you want to take out your balls in addition to your wang, but it's usually not necessary. As long as your penis clears your clothing enough not to get yourself wet, you should be good. Do whatever is comfortable for you.

3) As far as the button on your trousers go, it depends on how tight they are. If your pants are so tight that you have trouble getting to your "junk" inside, then you might want to unbutton the top button. If not, then you can just slip your penis through the fly. If you are wearing shorts or sweats that don't have a fly, just hold down the waistband in the front and pull your penis out over the top to pee.

4) There is no need to worry about other guys "peeking" at you. Most guys are not concerned about anyone else in the restroom except themselves. There is an unwritten rule at urinals, "keep your eyes on the road". In other words, you are either looking straight ahead or down at your own equipment, but never off to the side. As long as everyone does that, nobody gets embarrassed. If somebody does see your junk, then who cares? Everyone in there should have the same thing! As long as you are not purposely "exposing" yourself to everyone, you should be fine by just walking up to the urinal and peeing normally.

Answer 5

Speaking at the urinal is taboo, and most men know better. It just something you don't do. A grunt hello, or a nod of the head as you walk up is fine, but no words are spoken...ever. Speaking will get you looked down on, and commenting on another guys junk...yeah, that's a punch to the face.

Answer 6

I imagine in the archaic world of mens minds that standing together in an open space and urinating is really quite daunting to the novice.

My husband never uses a urinal. Not everyone does.

You can pee outside cant you? In the woods? Standing up? Iam pretty sure its the same idea, only you're aiming for the drain.

Answer 7

dude dont wory. its ok. its realy your preferince thow. you can un button if you want but the un zip. and if u only unzipe DONT TAKE YOUR BALLS OUT. i did that once and zip then AHHH!!! and if you have some hair down there then my advice is unbutton that way no hair in zipper. and last (for this part) if you want to use both hands you can of if no it dosent matter.

but to stop peaple from looking u can do 2 things

1) stand close enought to the urinal
2) if a bathroon dosent have the dividers inbetween the urinals then my advice is go into a stall. that way you dont feel ouckward

Answer 8

For goodness sake, why is anyone taking this person seriously?
Can any man here claim that he never, as a teen or preteen, used a urinal?
Did this person always go in a cubicle. take his trousers down and sit down? Does he do that at home?
I learnt to pee standing up at a urinal at school from the age of 5, and I'm pretty sure I stood in front of the toilet at home and 'pointed Percy at the porcelain' before that.

Answer 9

How To Use A Urinal

Answer 10

Dude be proud of your junk dont hide it. Walk up unzip or button dig for it in your boxers or briefs pull it out and do your busness. stick it back in and button up or zip your done. I would leave the top button done because you could loose your pants to the floor if you didnt have a belt. If you are wearing shorts and doesnt have a fly it comes out over thetop of the shorts balls and all or just the unit. and Who cares if somone seeks a look it will happen to you in your life time of urnal usage. we all have 1 unit and 2 balls and there is hair there nothing to be a shamed about be confident in what you have and not embarassed.

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