I fnally know who this secret hater of me was and I have never been rude to him or cursed him in anyway,but he came back 2 my life to resurrect feuds that I never thought existed in the1st place
I remember we were good friends.It started over minor armwrstlng contests over 6 years go which I won and then somehow aroused his jealousy of me...in everything I did he challenged me,and whenever he lost I remembered the glare in his eyes
I told him hating will get him nowhere..and finally I stopped responding to him and said that he was acting "unfriendly"
Well after that he stole a very favourite game (5 years ago) of mine which officially ended our friendship,we did not meet for a long time since
Ths hater recently came back recently and spread lies abt me to defame me(online).He has even sent hate messages now.I have tried telling him to understand that hatred is not good but nothing moves him
the real Q is why do some ppl hate even they have no reason to hate?jealousy or dumbness?
2007-10-21 01:25:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
In my opinion since time began men and women have been fighting and this fighting comes from being jealous of what someone else has. It could be they dislike you for having many friends, for being smart and talented, from having a better family life, for wearing better clothes etc. There are a zillion reasons why it's just in their mind to be hateful.
It could be when he was growing up something was not in his life? What could it be? It could be his parents were cold to him didn't show love. Or, he was loved but was not trained taught in the house to be a good person to all he met or how to work hard and be honest.
When a child is born they are taught from early age right from wrong in most cases. The one you call "hater" must have missed out getting what he needed to feel loved and respected. He might feel his parents are not satisfied with him that he has to prove something to get noticed even if he is doing something wrong..to get that acceptance.
He could be scared in his heart and soul from something like this. Hopefully someone will touch him and change his way of thinking so he will be happy and have a better feeling about himself.
I hope there will be a change in his life so he can enjoy life like you. Sometimes people have to get in trouble with the law before they see their life is going in the wrong direction. like the "hater". It's sad but the troublemakers have always been with us in the world. Some are helped in prison or from a counselor.
It's that way all over the world there is not a perfect place where people get along. All anyone can do is distance themselves from the people like the "hater" and if you have faith you can pray to your God and ask blessings for this person who is so troubled that they will be saved from a troubled tormented life..
Mama Jazzy Geri
2007-10-21 01:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Jazzy Geri 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Salam
We have a question posted by Spiderman on Justice League questions and you can see the ayat there from Allah Swt and some tefseer inshAllah.
The ability to filter through all that is in the world requires many lenses. Only Spiderman that I know of can do that without any outside interference but through the guidance of Allah SWT alone! And many messengers came and have gone and yet we look for answers that where given long ago.
2007-10-21 04:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are Republicans so blinded by their hatred towards Democrats that they will vote for anyone who is not a Democrat regardless of the issues? In their minds are they voting AGAINST Democrats or FOR Republcans? Frankly, given the platforms and the issues for which the Repubs stand on, and what the Dems stand on, I'm inclined to vote FOR a Democratic candidate. I personally vote the person, not the party.
2016-05-23 23:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is jealous of you. He may also be mentally ill or insane or have a brain problem and is targeting you and harassing you. Inform your friends and family about this and keep them aware. Be always on your guard and be cautious and careful. He seems to have something against you. If you are old enough and independent and working you can move out to another place for a while, keeping your wherabouts a secret. Stay away from him, and avoid any contact.Take care of yourself. He is evil.
2007-10-21 01:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitely jealousy
2007-10-21 01:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignorance and jealousy usually something that is ingrained by the way they are brought up. if somone can't/won't see past the nose on there face then they are not worth knowing. Don't let him bother you, a problem is only a problem when you allow it!
2007-10-21 01:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's hatred...i guess that's insecurity.
For your Q...I dont know but what i knew people wont hate anyone unless they have done some wrong to be hated.
Hatred is associated with things that can harm you phsicaly.
So, you have to beware of him.
2007-10-21 01:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by kugay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know who you are. or what you believe. but. Do not try any revenge on this person. Just sit back and laugh at them . as God gets revenge for you. it's fun. people laugh at me and pick on me. I keep my mouth shut. and IT happens. the guy across the streat talking bad about me. Well he got shot by the police. I never said a word. except he paid me $250. and the insurance gave me $750. more. they broke my window.
keep your mouth shut and ask
God to fix it. ok?
2007-10-21 01:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by hifi1863 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the people who do not succeed will follow only hatred; they will be keep on telling cock and bull stories because, they are jealous. why they are jealous because, again we come to the beginning that these people only follow hatred!
2007-10-21 01:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by chieftrafficwarden 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people hate themselves and feel bad about themselves it makes them feel better to make others hurt too i guess.
2007-10-21 01:31:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋