poll: for you, which is easier to forget, others' act of kindness or their shortcomings?

Answer 1

I would have to say for me it's easier to forget someone's shortcomings because I always remember acts of kindness

Answer 2

I try not to forget either but I would have to admit that it is easier to forget a kindness than a shortcoming because shortcomings repeat themselves where as kindness are more likely to be a once in a life time thing.

Answer 3

My acts of kindness have been forgotten by some but... enough of my whinging.

I forget people's minor shortcomings.

Answer 4

It's hard to forget either because both can make such large statements. Acts of kindness could hide ill intentions. Certain shortcomings can be overseen, others unacceptable.

Answer 5

I would have to say their shortcomings.
Most shortcomings are short lived, as people try to correct them, whereas acts of kindness are occurring every moment.

Answer 6

I try not to see short comings in anyone. I try to see their strengths rather than their weaknesses and I forget no act of kindness.

Answer 7

it's not that it is easier to forget but i'd rather accept their short comings, i don't want to ever forget acts of kindness, they are too precious.

Answer 8

their shortcomings

Answer 9

shortcomings..

Answer 10

i forgot