okay , here is my situation. i have the apartment, i have the furniture but i am standing here frozen with fear. i guess I could wait for a couple of days to chill out or i just could pick the phone and call the ppl to move the furniture.
I know I'm a chicken! this is the first time i'm gonna live totally alone and excited as i was now i'm scared. plus i won't have internet there for the first week or so. or... should i go there with my lap top and check if the connection works? i can move out but i can't stand to be separated from the internet community.
ok, should i move today, yes or no?
2007-10-20 20:15:23 · 20 answers · asked by sarah kay 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
A few words i picked out from your psyche:
Scared, Leaving, Home, Wait, Fear, Alone, Separated.
Now, a few words you can replace those with:
Change, Normal, Inevitability, Growth, Reflection, Independence, Whole, Alive, Freedom.
But the one word that will crystallize and never change: Home.
2007-10-21 05:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kentucky Dave 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow I'm sorry. If you two lived for so long, then in the past everything must've been fine, right? I see 2 posibilities. Either he already had this mental disability but hid it around you carefully or since relationships are exciting in the beginning, he felt being with you relieved his depression. The second posibility is that something happened to him while you two were together and he became mentally unstable. If you can, if its possible, talk with him about it. Say he's scaring you and hurting you. If he truly loved you, he wouldn't have done it. But if you feel you really can't talk with him, then get away from him. He's very dangerous and unstable. He is not good for you. I'm so sorry. Good luck.
2016-05-23 23:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by marietta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sarah, Part of it depends on what you are scared of. If it is being alone and afraid of harm, Then get a freiend to spend a few nights until everything is set. If it is the loneliness, try one night at a time. If you find your internet connection does work, spending time with friends on here can be a big help. It's a big step, Hon, don't feel pushed into it. You do know you have to as soon as possible, but on your terms. Feel free to email me if you just need someone to talk to.
2007-10-20 20:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by the_chief 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait a while you don't have to force yourself immediately. Stay home for another 2 weeks or so and try to find a friend to spend the first night with you or something to make it a little less scary and so you can start getting used to it. Just relax.
Start spending time in it a little more each day or every other day. Invite people over for coffee or movies (I am assuming you are young) that way you can get better vibes about staying in there.
2007-10-20 20:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do it! i just moved out a few weeks ago and even though i was moving with my fiance, i was still scared stiff! its the first time i've lived away for my mommy lol its ok to feel like u do, but once u get to ur apartment, you'll love it. plus u dont wanna lose ur money from the apartment and furniture. as for ur internet, just go to a library, or go to ur moms house during the day to get online lol. thats what did too. trust me, you'll be fine after the first few nights. you'll love ur freedom
2007-10-20 20:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your reasons for moving out.
If you're trying to get away from someone (parents, old bf/gf, gardner, :) etc.) then go. If its to move on to a new beginning, you might as well make sure the infrastructure is good- internet, etc. No rush, you want to move to be up, not down or status quo.
2007-10-20 20:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on a lot of variables. How old are you? Will you have friends and family near? Are you able to support yourself? Are you brave enough? Are you rich enough to send me a ticket so I can come hold your hand for a while? (kidding) All joking aside, good luck with whatever you decide and keep us informed. Many of us care.
2007-10-20 20:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by David S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move....ask one of your friends to stay for the first night, play some scrabble, or envite your whole gang for a first night on my own party.
the idea is to move on. with a smile...
i think you should, anyways it depends on your relationship with your parent, if they're too cool you might not want to leave but...i say go for it...the net will come
advice...take your laptop and search for a free wireless network in the area...you might find untill you get your own
2007-10-21 22:38:48 · answer #8 · answered by Nicu O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should set up the internet first, or wait until thats set up and your tvs set up so youre not sitting there bored and alone. then you can move in. i know how you feel! i dont live alone, but im on my own for the first time. its scary at first but youll be fine i promise :)
2007-10-20 20:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't let fear control you. You will always have the net just search out the hot spots at your new home.
2007-10-20 21:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by ravenscardarkhope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋