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Ok...ppl plz dont be mean or nothing im very serious....Well me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time last sunday Sept 14....We didn't use protection..I kno I kno...he pulled out....the next day i had discharge.....Im not quite sure when i get my period but it is usually around the 18th.... I have been having more discharge..and i have been getting mild cramps...I have had a lot of stress recently with parents..and school..and of course the possibility of me being pregnant...i was just wondering if there was a possibitly of all this from stress...plz dont be jerks im very serious right now.... I believe i am supposed to start my period cuz i usually get discharge and i get crabby around that time of the month

Answer 1

It's probably stress, it can wreak havoc with your periods so try to relax a bit and I'm sure it will come. I'm sure I don't need to tell you what to do next time to avoid all this stress. But there's no point beating yourself up about it, millions of people make mistakes like this, it's easily done. As long as you learn your lesson, you should just move on.
Happy safe sex!

Answer 2

Unless you use protection, you could still get pregnant even with the pull out method. With that said though.....

You may or may not be pregnant. If you were careful enough, chances are, you're not pregnant. The brown discharge could be your spotting (pre-period) or it could be your actual period, depending on how your flows go.

There are many reasons why you wouldn't start your period on time. Pregnacy is one reason, but you also have stress, or if you're started a new workout routine, that will throw your body off as well. Just to be on the safe side though, you need to go down and buy some condoms as soon as possible BEFORE you have sex again. And pick up a pregnancy test just to be on the safe side.

Answer 3

Stress can have all sorts of weird effect on the body, and making your period late is one of those effects. Try to relax and not worry.

If you're concerned, take a pregnancy test in the next couple of weeks. If you're not pregnant, get on some birth control as soon as possible and always have your honey wear a condom. Not just for birth control, but to prevent disease. If it turns out that you are pregnant, be sure to find out all of your options before making a decision. You're young and a pregnancy doesn't have to ruin your life. There are lots of alternatives out there for you.

I hope that this helps. Good luck!

Answer 4

The best suggestion I can offer you at this time is to just relax. It is obvious that you are worried and scared, you don't need to add more stress to your life. You might find that you get your period in a day or two. The lesson learned here is one I don't have to mention because you are smart enough to know. Why don't you make a cup of tea, take a warm bath and relax. Good luck.

Answer 5

Stress can cause all those symptoms too. You can buy home pregnancy tests in drugstores and even at supermarkets if you're really worried. It sounds like you're only a little bit late, though.

Deciding you're mature enough to have sex means you need to be mature enough to be responsible about it and use birth control, right?

Good luck

Answer 6

Sounds like your getting your period. + the stress, that is only going to keep it longer. I dont think your pregnant. But if it would make you feel better, get a pregnancy test.

Answer 7

you could be pregnant

waitand see if your period comes in the next few days

meanwhile relax take a step bacl from you stressful life

if it doesnt come privatly tell your doctor or mum

good luck