Me and my bf are ready to have sex but we are only young teens and our parents are telling us that it is better to wait til your married what do you think? Should we wait til we get married wether it be to each other or someone else or should we go for it now?
2007-10-20 18:53:04 · 11 answers · asked by elizabeth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wait until ur married definately, it's a much smarter thing to do. To do otherwise is really a huge mistake.
2007-10-20 20:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by Ashton theKID 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how long have you been dating? To me, sex isn't based on age... It's based on maturity level and how "in love you really are"
It's completely up to you but ask yourself these questions:
1. Is there anyone else you can picture yourself with, or that you are attracted to?
2. "Is it just because you are "horny"/lusting and want to feel more pleasure to satisfy your hormones? ( it may sound silly but it's the main reason of a lot of teenage sex.
3. Do you know him well? Has he EVER hinted that is interested in other girls?
4. Was it his idea, or yours?... Has he ever hinted at you to do something to him?
NOT only this, but if you're a young teenager, people will find out and rumors will spread EVERYWHERE! It could ruin your reputation so is it worth it?
Wait until you are 100% positive that you could NEVER lose your feelings for him. I've made this mistake... I had sex when I was fourteen and I thought I was "in love" but no matter what, when you're fourteen, you are NOT in love, and I regret losing my virginity that early, everyday. Now, I am a couple of years older, and I actually am in love. I've been dating my boyfriend for several months, and I am always happy with him and never dissatisfied. He respects me, as his girlfriend and as a woman. He is never pushing me to do anything. I am always happy with him. Now that I actually know what REAL LOVE feels like, I wish I had lost it to my boyfriend... my first love.
Basically, think twice. You might be two young... there are still many fish in the sea out there and you might find that you don't love your boyfriend as much as you thought you did. If that's the case, you will have to deal with regret through a lot of your life. Sex is a big thing. So your choice is, to have sex and possibly hold a huge regret and ruin your reputation, or hold your hormones aside and wait a couple of years. If he is still your boyfriend in a couple of years, you'll know you're ready... If he's not, then he wasn't the one.
2007-10-20 19:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by laura c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you HAVE 2 wait until u get married but I do think u need 2 wait a little longer and b sure that is really what u want to do.
2007-10-20 19:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by Heather C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing, it will only be something huge to worry about. The risks are too much for you to take on at your age.
Wait until you are really able to see things objectively for what they are. Please wait until you are a lot older and can deal with the repercussions.
Boys are naturally risk-takers and will take a risk with your health out of sheer ignorance. The younger they are, the worse the bahavior.
This boy is more than likely just seeing how far he can get with you... and he WILL brag about it all over school.
You really don't want to be branded that way for the rest of your school years because it will make it tough to meet and date another boy without him having some preconceived notion about you based on whatever he heard about you.
2007-10-20 20:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always wait if you can, sex has so many consequences and those consequences are much more difficult the younger you are.
I don't think you need to wait until marriage but you should be 18 at the very least, older if you can make it.
2007-10-20 18:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by Daisy Indigo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is an important part of life. Just about everyone does it at some point. I would recommend you wait until your older. Marriage is important but I believe that if it's truly love, then...
You should wait until your older. Be careful. educated yourself on the consequences. Use protection if you decide to do it.
2007-10-20 19:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by Keshia G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are 18 so that you can file for public assistance as you raise the child alone. Think of the possible consiquences.
2007-10-20 21:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by Matthew J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be better to wait till you are married
2007-10-20 19:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till u get married !!
who knows if he is the one ur going to marry?
PLEASE dont make this mistake!
I did and I wish that I would have saved myself for my husband and give him the most special part of me.
but i was weak and gave it up to my then boyfriend.
If he really loves U then he would wait till u get married and give eachother ur hearts also.
2007-10-20 19:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until u married
2007-10-20 18:56:29 · answer #10 · answered by idah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋