Do you think i love my bf too much?? he is 18 and im 13...but i love him soo much..and its not hormones i just love him... i mean we've had problems..but hes everything to me....every little thing we do is just has special has a big thing..and there was a time when i was scared thinking i was preg. becuz we were not very responsable and we didnt have our heads on right and it tookus time to realize that..but even then he always told me verything would be ok...and he was gonna be there for us if i was preg. and i cant stand to be w/o him..... we wanna have a child together..but in the future..and we both decided to wait til marrage for sex..but everyone says were too young and not in love..do you think we are or arent??? please be detailed!!
2007-10-20 18:49:29 · 8 answers · asked by ipod 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
AFTER WE THOUGHT I WAS PREG..AND FOUND OUT I WASNT WE WERE LIKE...."NOT SEX AGAIN UNTIL WE GET MARRIED. BECAUSE THAT WAS SO SCARY FOR US
2007-10-20 19:20:25 · update #1
im sorry sweetie....but your 13. He's 18. That is illegal eveywhere.
Im glad that you decided to wait to have sex until after your married, but the fact that you both even had sex, and thought that you we're with child is disturbing. How do your parents feel about this?
2007-10-20 18:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is, sorry to say, a very immature relationship.
It is lust, desire, and hormones. A young man in LOVE doesn't take advantage of a 13 year old girl. Finish school...get a job...have a taste of life before you settle down.
Look at it this way...How much have you grown up and learned in the past 5 years? Now think of how much more you will learn and change in this next 5 years.
If you can't understand this, you are way too young to even think about boys and such. They will continue to use you and you will end up an unwed mom, believe me.
So...what is real love? It's what you have when you're married to the same person for 20 years and you're still going strong. This kind of love takes time and hard work.
Don't settle for the first boy who says he loves you- they come and go all the time.
Tell me 10 things that prove he is mature and responsible enough to even think about having a wife and a baby. You already told me one BAD STRIKE- he had sex with a child....
In Idaho he would be in jail right now. What does that tell you?
Wise up and use your brain instead of your feelings.
2007-10-21 02:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by redmane_at_stargazer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13 you can't know what it means to really be in love, 10 years from now you will be 23 and you will be a completely different person and so will he, how can you know that you will still be in love at that time.
Just take it easy you have a lot of time and should be with a lot of different boys before you decide who you want to marry or have sex with.
And don't have sex! It's not worth it at that age.
2007-10-21 01:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Daisy Indigo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's to old for you. Believe me. I dated a 19 year old when i was 15 and now at 37 I could kick myself for not realizing he only wanted one thing. date people your own age, it'll be less complicated. think about this: what's wrong with him that he can't have a relationship with someone his own age?
And, how did you think you got pregnant if you 'both decided to wait til marriage for sex'?
2007-10-21 02:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by Keshia G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off why are you messing with a pedophile he's too old for you keep messing with him you will end up pregnant if not at 15 then 16 concentrate on your schooling and not this boy who should have his a** beat.
2007-10-21 01:54:39 · answer #5 · answered by cutie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be young and in love and that's fine and dandy but he's legal and you're...not.
And that's rape.
Be careful. If people start finding out, he could get in alot of trouble.
2007-10-21 01:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you're too young to be in love as long as that's truely what you feel.
I do have one question about your wording; if you're going to wait until you're married to have sex, then why were you scared that you might be pregnant? o.o
2007-10-21 01:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by carebearexecutioner 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why did you do this, so early ?
2007-10-21 01:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by Rana 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋