Was I going to have an orgasm? o_o?

Question

Well, in a previous question, I had a problem because nothing me or my boyfriend did to me felt like anything at all. Welp, that changed last week.

Long story short, he went down on me... and THINK it felt good. (I cant tell, its the first time ive ever felt anything like that). My entire body was twitching and at certain points I was getting very horny.. hehe... i was lost in my own world it felt like... then, a while into it, it felt tingly down there... problem was, he had to stop because he couldnt feel his face anymore ahahaha....

Anyway, my question is, are those the signs leading up to an orgasm? If so, how much longer would he had to have gone to get me there?

I feel like an idiot asking but ive never had/come close to having one, and that expeiriece was totally new for me.

Thankyah if you could help.

Edit- Please dont tell me to masturbate; I dont like it, i dont get anything out of it, and it feels weird doing it. I dont like feeling myself x_x;

The only time I feel anything sexualwise is with my boyfriend. That's not the question i was asking, anyway.

Also, it's not sex. I'm underage, and I dont want to have sex until im 18 at least. We've tried a few times, it didnt feel good at all, and I got way too stressed waiting for my period. He's fine with that too, so we do other things.

Answer 1

I wish people like Goldyyloxx would refrain from talking out of their @ss. Humans are sexual beings and it is natural to want to have sex with someone you're attracted to. As long as you're being careful and not hurting anyone, it's fine. All this crap about sin just does my head in. Anyway, you sound like you've got your head screwed on, by not having full sex until you're older. Good on you both! As for the orgasm thing, it definitely sounds like you were getting there. There is usually a build-up and you get to a point where you feel like something is about to explode. I guess a couple more minutes maybe. Keep experimenting, he can use his fingers as well as his tongue, the combination of both could make you come faster. You'll know when you've had an orgasm.

Answer 2

It sounds as if you were on your way to orgasm. Another few seconds or a minute and it would've happened.

For me, an orgasm feels great. My feet get tingly, I feel myself getting hot, and my muscles tense up. But those are just SOME of the many feelings one can feel during orgasm. Everyone is different.

I know you said you don't like masturbating. That's ok. It took me YEARS to finally feel comfortable enough to do it on myself. And to this day, the only way I can climax is with a vibrator. But seriously, the best way to learn is to practice on yourself. You can even get your boyfriend involved in the process too. Guys love that sort of stuff.

And don't worry, you're not an idiot for asking. How else will you learn unless you ask.

Answer 3

If you want an orgasm, you're going to do have to masturbate, there is really no other surefire way. Use a vibrator on your clit. Yes, you were probably on your way to orgasm. Might have been 5 more minutes or so, depending on the intensity of the stimulation.

By the way, grow up a little and actually touch yourself. Adults are not afraid of their sexual organs.

Answer 4

I would recommend exploring your own body. When he performed oral on you, he was probably concentrating on your clitoris...which has millions of nerve endings. Clitoral stimulation is the only way that about 80% of all women ever rach orgasm.

So I would urge you to try to touch yourself, and learn to masturbate. If you know how to do it and you become comfortable doing it, then you can masturbate during intercourse, and I bet you'll have WAY more fun than you're having right now.

Answer 5

Sounds to me like you were getting there. However, the rwason you don't get anything out of it is because you feel uncomfortable....iits written all through your question. In order to get the big o. You have to first, feel comfortable about sexuality, which it seems you are not. However, when he went down on you, which will put you in your own world, you relaxed a bit after a little bit, and you started to get there, next time relax sooner! I also comend you on your choice to wait till you r 18 to get it on all the way....bravo. Just relax. Smoke a blunt and bring it on home!

Answer 6

I agree with the two above answers about touching yourself.
I think that women who have orgasms on a consistant basis learned how to do it themselves first.
It's your body and there is NOTHING wrong with exploring it, it's quite healthy. Orgasms are awesome, and once you figure out what does it for you you'll probably be able to duplicate it in sex.

Answer 7

The first thing you need to do is explore your own body and learn WHAT feels good to you and WHAT makes YOU orgasm when you are alone. Until you explore your own body there is no way for you to be able to tell your partner what works or even know what an orgasm is. Start exploring your body by rubbing your clitoris or by sitting under a running bathtub faucet or use a hand held shower head on your clitoris to find out the things you need to know.

Answer 8

Depends on how intense the feeling was, and if your boyfriend could keep the pace. It basically comes down to this, if you dont explore yourself, and find what gets you off, how can you expect your boyfriend to do it. Another thing, is your boyfriend has to watch how you respond to certain stimulation, he needs to practice that as well.

Answer 9

It does sound like you were getting close. Have him put a finger in you, and massage your g-spot while he is down on you. Not at first, but when you get closer. He can also use his finger on your clitoris as well, when his tounge tires. Between the tounge, the g-spot, and his finger on your clitoris, you should be able to acheive orgasm.

Answer 10

It sounds like you were getting there!

You definitely should masturbate, it is terrific and will help you be a better lover in the future.