i'm having some difficulty to start a conversation with a new people in the party,formal function,family gathering or even in the new working place.i'm kinda shy to make a first move
2007-10-20 18:40:12 · 7 answers · asked by cleopatra clare 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
The best way to start conversations is first to have a relaxed, smiling, and open countenence.
Notice something about the person's clothes or companions, and then if you get a chance compliment person's dress or hair. Or, you can say something like, "Are you Jill's roommate?" Also, you can speak of the event that you are both attending, and make a small personal disclosure like, "I love this room. I was here once many years ago. Do you like this hotel too?"
It's really important to look people in the eye, when you first meet. Work at feeling blessed and grateful that you are there, and have this little opportunity to (practice) meeting and greeting the people in your little world. :)
2007-10-20 19:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 21⤊ 1⤋
Don't fear approximately your incapacity to begin a talk - that may be constructed via train. Besides, being quiet would imply you are a "philosopher" as an alternative than a "talker", this means that you would turn out to be a first-class mind physician or a progressive engineer sooner or later.
2016-09-05 18:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, It's ok 2 b shy! @ least u know u r aware that it is difficult 2 strike up a conversation. But actually, it's not! U can't think 2 much, or u'll talk yourself out of it. The one person u want 2 talk 2, is the one that actually needs u 2 talk 2 them , everyone needs a person 2 respond 2 their vibes! We all would luv a stranger 2 @ least give us 1 complement. Just think... u could be their sign, they were waiting on!
2007-10-20 19:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Why do you think that you have to start the conversation? Just smile and they will come to you. Then the hard part starts. Can you maintain the conversation are can you bulls*it you're way through it like I do. I say uh-huh and oh yeah. Sometimes I throw it back at them with a "what do think about" anything .They're off and running again.Actually..it's pretty easy.
2007-10-20 18:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by chilicooker_mkb 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I usually start with "hi" I'm _________(name). Then lead to a question "How do you know the couple", "are those your kids", compliment the kids, or ask them if they come from your city. Compliments always work nicely. "OHHH, i love your scarf." Or "where did you get those great shoes?" People love attention. They wont look at you and then look away if start talking. What are scared of? Did you know that if walked up to a complete stranger and held out your arms as if to hug they would hug you. Weird huh. Its true though, every one loves to be loved.
2007-10-20 18:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by enriquelomasa 3 · 9⤊ 3⤋
Just do it! Not all the people is sincere like you, something that will always help you to have great friends.
2007-10-20 18:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by Rick 2 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Well this was a very good move.
Just keep doing what you are doing!
2007-10-20 18:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 12⤋