So my bff's bf broke up wit h her..I love her to death and shes been talking about death.She says her life sucks..I need help..I dont want her to die!
2007-10-20 17:44:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try to talk her out of it. Plan a girls night out day to get her mind off of it. And if that doesnt help tell someone and she might get mad at you but it better than her dying and shell relize that after wards!
2007-10-20 17:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a good long talk with her. She needs cheering up considerably. Make sure that she feels wanted and loved and that you're always there for her no matter what. If this suicide thing is more regular then maybe a consultation with the doctor would help.
Depression is an actual medical condition and shouldn't be dismissed as "feeling fed up".
With enough love and attention, she should be fine
good luck
2007-10-21 00:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Comfort her and tell her you're there for her and that everything happens for a reason. The right guy for her is still out there!
2. how old are you guys?
If 18+:
It all depends on if you think she's the type who would act on it. Would she really kill herself? or is she just saying that because she's really upset?
I often say 'oh my life sucks I want to die' jokeingly or even more seriously when things go wrong at work, school, etc. But i would never act on it. It's just a method of speech.
If under 18:
I say go to the school councellor and ask for help.
2007-10-21 00:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her that he didn't deserve her and that she will find someone better , and then try to find things to do with her that helps her keep busy. you should probably tell her parents that she said that to you so that they can help as well or watch her to make sure she doesn't do anything to herself. Perhaps she has low self esteem and the parents can get counseling for her for that. you might even tell a counselor at school because the more people there are for her to draw support from the stronger she can become. I hope that you can get her help because sometimes people do not and that is very sad.
2007-10-21 00:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guy is worth dieing over when he was the one that broke up. He's the real looser here. Get some professional help for her. Call the hospital, they should be able to give you a hot line number. Be there for her.
2007-10-21 00:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want your best friend to stay,let her think on the negative effects her death will cause such as: many people are going to be sad and like your parents they may forget their life and focus their attention nto her because of her death they might be lost in the self,.Convince her also think on the positive effects if she continue her life,we never know it misght encourage her to seek for another man who will love her..so don't just be there and wait on what will happen,encourage her to find for another manwho will more love him,encourage her to think on the negative and positive sides.
2007-10-21 01:18:59 · answer #6 · answered by kathrina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her that death is not the answer to your problems.... you have to suck it up. and deal with it OK... its only a stupid guy..... there are a million guys out there not just ONE........ telll her that its not worth crying or commiting suicide for a STUPID GUY that doesn't even care about her.....life goes on........ we all feel like our life sucks every once in a while... but then it gets better ok... so tell her that she better deal with it and grow up..... she is only thinking about her and her problems... but she isn't thinking about all those great people out in the world that CARE about her and that would be hurt if she did something like suicide.... NOTHING is worth killing yourself... especially NOT A GUY!!!!!...
and by the way................................... .... tell her to read this to see what she thinks.......... tell her not to be so stupid
2007-10-21 01:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by KeepCool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she suffering from depression u need to take her to doctor that's all u can do if this is a case
because ppl suffering from depression can be heal only by pills so that's the only way
but she may not agree to seek a doctor but u need to fool her & take her to the doctor & don't forget to tell that to her parnets r U WILL BE BIG TROUBLE MISS.......
2007-10-21 00:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by Amit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to one of her parents, or dail up a suicide hotline and get some tips that will help in talking to her. she is depressed and shouldn't want to kill herself over someone breaking up with her she should be a lot stronger than that. get her somehelp asap before she does something stupid.
2007-10-21 00:48:53 · answer #9 · answered by cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
convince her that its only her bf and life isn't worth all that. Life's worth living.
2007-10-21 01:03:08 · answer #10 · answered by King of blubber, sitting on your throne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋