2007-10-20 17:04:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
my obligations or to God first than my family and than me last.
2007-10-26 03:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by boo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great Q Mr S,
I think it depends on the importance of the need of each at the time. I have many asian friends (mostly Chinese, Malay & Japanese) who will almost always accommodate their personal goals within their family responsibilities and live happy and productive lives in the bossom of their family.
I have also seen it overdone where a person (generally female) was made to sacrifice their life for the family - this I think was wrong.
But I have also seen the opposite where a person ignored their family to follow their own selfish whim and was a lesser person for it.
So - idk mate family is great if ALL members are prepared to make sacrifices for it.
2007-10-21 00:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am more about my family obligations than my own goals.
2007-10-21 00:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, personal goals are personal obligations.
2007-10-28 22:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely. That is the reason why we don't get married and have children until and after we have achieved professional and financial stability.
2007-10-21 00:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by Belen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
different societies have different ideologies regarding that, truthfully i dunt know which one is better, i guess my western upbringing leads me to be comfortable weth a more individual focused prioritizing, but i reallay dunt know â¥
2007-10-21 00:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋