2007-10-20 16:27:55 · 26 answers · asked by Petrice Rochelle W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The reason women get cheated on is because we allow men to cheat on us. If you know he is cheating on you and lying about money that could have went into your house hold then why don't you confront him about it? Let him know that you know and separate from a cheater. AIDs are real and most men don't use protection when they are out their cheating. It’s different when you don't know, then your a victim. But if you do know and he gives you something then it’s your own fault. I would rather stress about being single, than stress because my so called husband is cheating on me. You’re not in control of what he does, but you're in control of what you do. Think about what you want in a husband and if it’s a cheating man then go for it. If you want more than a man that would put your life in danger and disrespect you then you figure out what your going to do next.
Truth
2007-10-20 16:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by Eve C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First you need to find out if that is really the case. Have you caught him? Second the other question is do I want to stay in the relationship or work through it. Usually at this point you would follow through with the divorce because you will probably never trust him again especially when you don't know where his checks are going.
You might want to think about starting the paperwork to start a new life. I hate divorce but you can only do so much.
2007-10-20 23:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by level_9yo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
These are the reasons why I never got married. Someday I will get married, but not to someone who is secretive about his lifestyle, point blaming, and careless with his money.
If your husband is cheating on you, confront him. Ask him why is it necessary to spend money on his girlfriends? You should both seek marriage counseling because it is not going to get any better leaving it alone. If you don't have open communication about this and don't take care of this immediately, your marriage will suffer.
Tell your husband, "MARRIAGE IS A SACRAMENT!!" Not just an instant annulment or a quickie divorce. When you marry someone, it is "for better" or "for worst".
2007-10-20 23:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorce
2007-10-20 23:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
confront him about it and give him an ultimatum. Either he stops cheating on you or you leave him. That's not acceptable in any relationship, no matter how much you love him only because it's so hurtful to you.
About the paycheck, maybe you should just have him give you a certain amount every month and then he can have his own personal account to spend money with. That's what my roommates do and they're married.
sorry sweetie!
2007-10-20 23:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by angelhaiku 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you know for sure, get rid of him............Divorce him, spend all his money, leave him, he doesn't deserve you. Leave him, how can so many people not figure this out, life is too short to play these kind of games, move on to someone who will love you and make you feel it, someone who you don't need to question, trust me they are out there right now looking for you....this guy will not change even if he says he will, it is a statistical fact....and yet many woman still think they will, please don't waste your precious time here on earth over this fool, don't let him make you lool the fool, more than likely people around you also know about it, LEAVE HIM COLD TURKEY>>>>>NOW !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-20 23:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by rob2587 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry to hear this...well I had a divorce with her cheating I can tell you this...its going to hurt a lot to get lied to by him. he will lie about everything and anything cause wants he has started cheating he already has changed his feeling for you and talking to him wont matter...You should get your ducks in a row cause while he is out having fun you can plan your defense.. start saving your money and then leave his ***....but remember divorce is final don't look back...even when you are hurting so bad you cant take it anymore..just get through it and you will find someone who will love you back. its his loss...
2007-10-20 23:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorce.
2007-10-20 23:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by star 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think he thinks ur no fun in bed anymore so what i think is that u should act more sexy or ask him where he is going if he goes either im im or um that means he is going to cheat on u / he may lie to u about a pay check maybe the person that he is cheating on with u wants money.
2007-10-20 23:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
See a lawyer & draft a separation agreement.
Go to family court & get a (child) support order.
2007-10-20 23:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by Robert S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋