My best friend's sister's boyfriend's brother's girlfriend heard from this guy who knows this other guy who's going with a girl who saw my husband making out with a lady in Walmart's parking lot. Should I divorce him for cheating?
2007-10-20 16:16:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't like the idea of my husband making me look like an a** if it true.
2007-10-20 16:30:06 · update #1
Say what?
::confused::
I'm not sure if would take such information seriously coming down such a long list of interpretations without additional facts....
2007-10-20 16:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by Infernal Disaster 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First off what does your gut say. Do you suspect that something isn't right? I personally know what this is like but I would take the comments you heard with a grain of salt. Trust is something built up over time so take some time to look at what's going on in your relationship first. Have there been changes and if so what? Does he spend a lot of time away from home? If he has a cell phone or credit cards look at the bills to see if there are unexplained charges. Check before making assumptions. You don't know what the other persons motives are in telling you. If he is have plenty of evidence to back you up before confronting him. If you don't he'll only deny it and then try to turn it on you. If you find nothing suspicious then maybe simply say someone you know thought they saw you at Wal-mart the other day but wasn't sure because you were someone else. Don't say it was a girl just someone else and see what he says. Only you can determine if divorce is right for you but If it were me I would want substantial proof not some hearsay from a party well removed.
2007-10-20 23:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by Orion 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you do.
Go get your best friend, her sister, her sister's boyfriend, the guy he heard it from, the other guy who's going with a girl, the girl, and your husband.
Now that this is done, half your work is over.
Next, line them all up. One by one, ask them to tell you the story they heard, or what they actually saw.
Except your husband. Don't allow him to speak yet.
When you've heard everyone's story, then you dismiss them all, give them the five bucks or whatever you promised them for showing up.
Now tie up your husband to a chair, douse him with gasoline, pull out a book of matches. At this point he should be able to correctly identify the woman he kissed in the Walmart parking lot.
What you do with her, once you have found her, is completely your own choice.
As for your husband, he has probably peed all over himself by now, and you really can't respect that, now can you?
Divorce him.
Have fun, good luck!
2007-10-20 23:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would confront your husband. considering it took like 8 people to find this out, who knows who was making out in the Walmart parking lot. let your husband have a chance to defend himself. would you want him to divorce you because his best friend's sister's boyfriend's brother's girlfriend heard from someone that knows someone else saw a boy in a parking lot making out with you????? if you are so quick to jump ship, maybe there's something more than you think he may have cheated on you.....
2007-10-20 23:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by stacie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First have you asked your husband if this true. Then, you shouldn't just divorce him over hear say.
Unless you become friends with the mother your's husband baby and you don't know it until 6 weeks after the child is born. And they both keep the truth away from you...then dear that is a excellent reason to divorce his sorry a**
2007-10-20 23:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ever play the game Pass The Secret.... By the time it's been passed by the third person it starts to change.
You might ask him why someone would say that... it's entirely possible it wasn't even your husband if it did in fact happen.
2007-10-20 23:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If someone that you KNOW didn't see it, don't believe it, and even then you should question it first. First get the details, then question him about it. Does this person (whoever that may be) even know what your husband looks like? Think about it.
2007-10-21 02:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by pjt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your husband say? Did he admit to anything? If not i would suggest that you speak to him before making any rash decisions regarding your marriage. I would also consider looking into marriage counseling.
2007-10-20 23:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by Hey Wife!!!!! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe everything you hear. There are alot of haters out there that just want to cause drama. If you are happy in your marriage let it go.
2007-10-20 23:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, don't confront him, he will only deny it. I would distant yourself from him and start the divorce process
2007-10-20 23:32:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋