had sex with her once and of course unprotected can this be true? If so should I live him please help
2007-10-20 15:56:14 · 15 answers · asked by candy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
So, is it your boyfriend or your husband? You've asked this question both ways now...
And the answer is still the same - you can get a positive pregnancy test within two weeks of conception, so yes it could be his. And yes of course you can get someone pregnant even if you only had sex with them one time.
As for the other part of your question, if he really is your husband and not your boyfriend, then I think you should try to work it out. Sometimes people just make mistakes and they aren't worth destroying a marriage over.... especially if you have two kids.
2007-10-20 16:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.P 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you are married and have two kids you should know that it's perfectly possible to get pregnant after just once. I am living proof as my husband and I only had sex once since I stopped my birth control and here I am, pregnant.
I think your major issue is seeing if she is pregnant for sure. Then after the baby is born you need to have your husband get a paternity test. This could be a very big strain on your relationship. You need to talk to him and see just how much you mean to him and if he's honestly sorry for what he's done. I wouldn't leave him if he's TRULY sorry. Then again I have no idea what your relationship is with him. If it was just a one time slip up I'd give him a freebie. If this was something that had been a long time coming and now he finally got caught... that decision is ultimately up to you.
Good luck in whatever you do.
2007-10-20 16:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mommy to Boys 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he had intercourse with a woman on an identical time as quickly as unprotected, then definite, she could be pregnant. It purely takes one time to get pregnant. additionally, that's extremely achieveable that he could have an STD. you have to be very careful so as which you are not getting contaminated additionally. no count if or no longer you flow away him is completely as much as you. you are able to desire to think of roughly particular issues, which includes: Will he ever have the potential to be relied on lower back? Will he stay trustworthy? in case you're uncertain of no count if or no longer you should stay with him, i think of you should touch a counselor (somebody you are able to fulfill with in man or woman) or a life coach(somebody you meet with online). that's important artwork with somebody to objective to come to a decision what you particularly want from this occasion, and the thank you to effectively artwork by using it. be at liberty to touch me in case you have any questions. good success!
2016-10-13 09:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my hub was still my b/f, he left me and went to a different state and slept with 1 girl when he came back two weeks later he told me she was pregnant and she said it was his. Even though he only slept with her once. well when the test came back positive it hurt me, even though we technically had broken up (aka. he left didnt say goodbye then came back and wanted to be with me). so it can be true and im sorry but if you should leave him or not is your decision its not something we can decide for you. I stayed with my man even though what he did was horrible we now have 1 child and one on the way. Im so sorry. Just remember if you forgive him you cant keep throwing it in his face. and also think about what your kids need and if you can give it to them whithout him.
2007-10-20 16:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you kidding... Kick His A*ssssss!!! Then make him leave. Don't bring that stuff around your other 2 children.
And don't think about working it out with him, you'll never truly trust him and you'll never truly be happy. You need to do whats best for your children and yourself. You need to be as close to 100% as you can for them, a happy mom means happy kids. I hate to say it but forgive your husband but don't forget and don't give him the chance to pollute your happiness, health, and children. Best of luck
2007-10-20 16:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by Khelie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont know about knowing just 18 days later, but she could be pregnant. I would dump his *** with or without her being pregnant. Good Luck
2007-10-20 16:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by Samantha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just trying to figure out what your saying bugs me... No point in answering this question. I hope your children learn to speak properly.
2007-10-20 16:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WENT THROUGH THE SAME THING WITH MY EX HUSBAND....
JUST THINK I SAID EX...
NOW NO MATTER HOW HARD YOU TRY TO FORGIVE HIM, THE THOUGHT OF HIM CHEATING WILL ALWAYS BE IN THE BACK OF YOUR MIND...
IF HE GOES OUT WITH FRIENDS YOU WILL ALWAYS BE ASKING YOURSELF, IS HE CHEATING ON ME AGAIN..
YOU WILL NEVER FORGET, WHAT HE HAS DONE TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY..
IF YOU STAY WITH YOUR HUSBAND, YOU MIGHT BE RAISING SOMEONE ELSE'S BABY...
YOU NEED TO DO SOME SOUL SEARCHING TO SEE WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU AND YOUR BABIES...
2007-10-20 16:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by jennifer a 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to realize that everyone has access to your other questions so they know that you are lying. Get off mommy's computer and go to bed!
2007-10-20 16:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are asking people you don't know? People who don't know your situation? I have a feeling you will stay.
2007-10-20 16:05:03 · answer #10 · answered by Adrian & Jaslene's Mommy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋