Is being highly educated, charming, good looking and well off good enough or is there more to a man that a woman seeks?
2007-10-20 15:55:55 · 42 answers · asked by Hello 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
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2007-10-20 15:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman. For instance, what is important to me in a man is: intelligence, kindness and a good sense of humor. I would need him to treat me with love and respect. I don't care about level of education or income. If he works hard or smart (preferably both), that is good enough for me. Charming and good looking are not at all necessary. I don't trust a man that is "too" charming. If he has all the wonderful traits and is good looking, well that is just a bonus.
2007-10-20 16:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki Tesla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who genuinely cares about you and not just hoping to get some. Perverts really turn me off. He should be dependable and responsible; being well off is good too (not broke) Guys without much money are fine unless it's their irresponsible behavior or lack of drive to get a better job that is making them broke. Men who are intelligent are preferred, or at least sensible and sreetwise. I would prefer someone relatively healthy, not sick and dying or really, really out of shape. Good looks is just a bonus; it's hard to find a good man, let alone a good man who's handsome.
2007-10-20 16:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by this website is pointless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His penis! LOL
What I love about my fiance (obviously I think he's HOT!) is that I can have an intellegent conversation with him. We can "debate" about all kinds of subjects and intrigue each other with questions that arise from it. He did go to the technical college and works in HVAC, but didn't get like a 4 yr degree or anything. Honestly, I don't think I could ever personally marry a man that worked in an office or something. Physically labor is a man's job in my opinion (I know others disagree and think it's sexist). But as gross as it sounds, we really do tend to be attracted to ppl like our mothers or fathers, and I can see the similarites in my fiance and my dad. Of course I didn't rationally think about then when we first met, but now I do. I think another good thing to have is differences. That sounds weird, but me and my man are totally different. We use each other's strengths to compensate for our own weaknesses. We make a good team. I've always been attracted to men that are outgoing and like attention, and I have always been shy. Opposites do attract.
2007-10-20 16:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by BlackDahlia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sizing up women based solely on arbitrary physical characteristics would be a nice start, but that trait might be genetic. I personally don't mind as too looks or financial status (must be hard working and educated, in school or life). I hold intelligence and consideration as top qualities.
2007-10-20 15:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by Dalarus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must also have a good heart and be someone you can trust completely.
But the rest of that is nice, too....
If you have a lot of money, don't make it obvious at first. You want to attract someone who loves you for the person you are, not for the car you drive......yes there is a hot, mindless girl who will go for the money every time, but hopefully that isn't what you have in mind!
2007-10-20 15:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by greengo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being highly educated isn't all that important, but all the others are a good factor.
2007-10-20 15:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be all of those things and be someone that I do not want. I cannot speak for other girls, but the things you listed above are just extras for the right man.
I want someone that listens to me, not one that pretends to listen.
Someone that shows they care, not just saying it.
Someone that will at least get you a card on a hallmark holiday.
Someone that doesnt forget my bday, Christmas etc.
Someone that loves me for who I am and not who he thinks I am or wants me to be
Someone that will risk putting me first in life
2007-10-20 16:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by hi_iduntcyber_doyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't for me anyway. He needs to be honest. He needs to be compassionate. He needs to love me yet give me space in the relationship to grow as a person. Charming doesn't say enough. I've met "charming" guys who I couldn't stand!
2007-10-20 16:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Gump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman is different. I was first attracted to my boyfriend because he was good looking, quiet, modest, and funny. He was absolutely NOT well off, he had to barrow money to take me out on our first date. But that didn't bother me at all. Now we have been together for 3 years and plan to get married.
2007-10-20 15:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want a good looking hunk that other women are jealous of. It is best if he has $ too. Aside from that, he can treat them like **** and slap them around, as long as they can 'claim him'. Do not listen to any of that other "sweet, nice, caring..yeah yah yah BS. I don't blame Women, they are the same as Men-in terms of sexuality they think with their bottoms and not their brains.
2007-10-20 16:05:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋