Is this true are she is playing us.
2007-10-20 15:21:03 · 23 answers · asked by candy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The dates do not add up... she wouldn't have even missed a period yet.... Either he is lying about when he was cheating on you or she is lying about him being the father. Definetly asked for paternity test.
2007-10-20 15:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well..honey....the question isn't whether it is true or not...the question is how long has your boyfriend been cheating on you??
In my opinion if someone says they are pregnant they usually are!! I mean how stupid can someone be as far as telling a lie about being pregnant cause they should know that a pregnancy test is very easy to purchase and get and it's just a matter of an hour or less to find out if that lie is actually the truth.
If you intend to stay with your boyfriend then it really doesn't matter if she is pregnant or not right???!!!?? I mean the man cheated and you took him back and so truely, honestly what does it really matter if he is going to have a child with another woman?
I really think that you need to check your boyfriend and find out to you what is really important and what you want for your life!!
If she is infact pregnant then he will have a child with another woman and if you marry him this will be your stepdaughter/son for eternity and you have to live with that.
If she isn't pregnant then you have to Fully Accept that your boyfriend cheated on you and he got lucky THIS TIME...if she didn't get pregnant but if you Marry him then you have to hope and pray....that he wont cheat on your *** Again!!
Rememember......Everyone makes mistakes!! Everyone is Human!! But some mistakes are carried out and give you a life long sentence...and other mistakes makes you think that what you got left or rather in certain cases what you have to hold on to! I don't know you...but I would have to say that if you were a woman with any worth I would seriously lose this guy because in my book cheating is a NO NO...and if you somehow think it is okay....then this only gives YOU the license to cheat. It's like a free Cheating card for you HOney!!
So....after I said that....who wins in the end??? NOOONE......SEE WHAT I AM SAYING!!!
2007-10-20 22:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by krYpToNitEsMoM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if conception happened on the 8th then by the 22nd she would have missed her period (w/28 day cycles). Her last period should have been around Mar. 25 to be within the fertile window of when she had sex with your boyfriend.
Be glad that he WAS your boyfriend rather than you husband or baby daddy. The best revenge is being happy and living a good life. Be prepared for a torturouse emotional rollercoaster if you decide to stay.
I hope I was helpful and that all goes well with your situation.
2007-10-20 22:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she call him the 8th of this month or the 8th of April? Either way it could still be true. A good tip off would to see if she looks about 6 months pregnant.
2007-10-20 22:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy to Boys 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did he use a condom when he decided to Screw someone else? Is he still? Why are you even still with him. Now with some other babies mama drama. I would be gone. But if you choose to stay I would Def get a paternety test. I dont care how much it costs no point in paying for a baby thats not yours. And if it is his will he be apart of its life. I hope so. Just because he doesnt want to be with the mom - he did take part in creating this baby, if it is his. MAN that would suck. I hope it works our for you.
2007-10-20 22:59:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only takes one time in the sack to make a baby and anymore it only takes a week to find out. Especially if it's at the right time of the month. However, most women don't know they're pregnant that soon. Not unless he has been banging her for some time.
2007-10-20 22:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by devil72_93 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As far as, you know it was April 8th, it could have been way before that. Besides, why do you care, get rid of him. Don't allow him to make a complete fool of you. I beat, he hasn't been honest with you from the start. Be glad, you know about him now, get rid of him and move on.
You deserve so much better.
2007-10-20 22:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by That one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible to find out you are pregnant within 2 weeks of conception. So, yes it's possible that the baby is his. He should get a DNA test though to be sure.
2007-10-20 22:26:18 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs.P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
26th of what April? Yes it is possible, you can get a positive hpt, 2 weeks from the date of intercourse.
2007-10-20 22:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by JEN 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it might be How do you know he wasnt with her before the 8th or maybe she wants him to pay some child support for another daddy the best thing is tell him to go get a DNA test
2007-10-20 22:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋