my mom is absolutely miserable what should i do?

Question

she said that me and my brother fight to much
i have an attude problem

and we don't fight as much as we used to rairly and i kinda have an attude problem but i feel really bad like i made her cry and i feel terrible

Answer 1

you should feel terrible if you make your mama cry.

Damn you.

Answer 2

I'm a mom and feel like that a lot lately. And they have made me cry in frustration. It is really hard to be the mom sometimes. A lot of responsibility and if she is single and working, not a lot of time to get everthing done.
For me, if my kids cooperate long enough to at least get their chores done it helps a great deal. It's really hard to come home from work and then clean the kitchen because they didn't, feed the dog because they didn't, cook cause it's my job, then clean the kitchen because they have an attitude about it. When does the laundry get done or any cleaning- because of course there are attitudes about these things also.
Try talking to your brother about what you can do together to take some of the load off of your mom. Yeah, you'll still fight but you might find you feel a bit more like a team if you are doing something together for your mom.
Good luck!

Answer 3

Feel bad, but don't feel too bad. Every teen goes through this with their parent, I know how you feel. If you want to reslove things with your brother talk to him about it, it may be hard but if you do you may end up solving problems and you might stop fighting for the most part. If it is absolutely impossible to stop fighting just stay away from him until you feel like you can talk without fighting. About the attitude problem you should apologize to your mom and do your best. It's really hard, I know, but it will make all the difference and trying your best to not have attitude will work. No one is perfect but if you do your best things will probably get better.

Answer 4

You should tell your Mom how awful you feel, made me feel better when my kids did it anyway. And if you know you have an attitude problem you should be able to work on it some and talk to your Mom about it, you'll probably be surprised to find out she or one of her siblings did the same thing. And she really can help you deal with your issues if you'll just let her. We want our children to talk to us about their issues and problems, most of us have gone through many of the things our children go through so we really do have good advice.

Answer 5

Well, just talk to her. Tell her how you feel about everything: From your attitude problems, to your fights with your brother, and maybe apologize for making her get upset.

And, if you truly feel that you have an attitude problem, ask your mom to get you in therapy, or try really hard to change.

Answer 6

Try acting like someone your mom would be proud of.You need to remember any one of us could die at any time,and think of how you would feel if your mother passed away tomorrow and her last memory before dying would be of you being a brat.

Answer 7

It's normal. Every teen goes through that. Just try and avoid your brother, or just keep quiet when he's around, if you don't want any fights.

Answer 8

Go to your room! Right now young lady!

When she has calmed down a little, tell her you're sorry, tell your brother you're sorry and tell her you will try your best to be better.

Answer 9

Try to get along with your brother

Answer 10

make her laugh or do something that she likes to do..
i totaly know what you mean
i rented a "mom" movie and did pedicures and talked about school
she is just having a rough time

Answer 11

like Apologize