I still like my ex-boyfriend (of whom I go to church with and have known for 12 years.) and I have a thing for my friend at church also. Him and I (the not-ex) just instantly clicked the first time we ever talked. He's different. He likes the Beatles, as do I, and he favorite color is purple. He's 15 and I'm almost the same age. However, I'm not sure if my ex might like me the least bit. Sometimes he acts like he does and sometimes not. I'm quite confused about the absurdity of it all. Can someone please chuck up a few words of wisdom and choice?
2007-10-20 15:05:23 · 8 answers · asked by Victoria <3! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's great to be in-like with more than one guy at your age. It's unhealthy to develop unreal expectations and fall head-over-heels for someone. Keep the friendships healthy (aka non-possessive and non-sexual) and you're in a very positive situation. Also, keep the female friends in your life the top priority.
2007-10-20 15:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are not married so you don't owe anything to anyone. And even if you where.... The way you make it sound it seems that the ex-boyfriend is just that. An ex-boyfriend. As in was in the past but is no more. The new boy has the potential to be the new boyfriend. So, I don't see no problem here. Just hang out with the new guy since the old one is not working out. I'm sure the ex-biyfriend would find another girl and would dump you just the same if things where not working out for him. Thats just the way life is. You live and you learn. You get into some relationships and they work but others don't. If they don't then time to move on.
2007-10-20 15:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, I say listen to ur heart on these issues if u like ur friend at church and not ur ex then date him if u cant decide between both of em, then write down the reasons u like each of them or write down all the neg and pos of dating ur ex or why u broke up with him in the first place. Hope this helps!
2007-10-20 15:09:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the not ex.If hes an ex than its over already.And the not ex clicked with you on the first talk.go with him.Oh and im my names victoria too.
2007-10-20 15:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad at all to like two guys at once. Sometimes I like 5 all at once. :o)
Ask your ex seriously about if he likes you or not. Can't tell you anything else - I don't know him probably.
2007-10-20 15:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by Aint No Bugs On Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had this same sitaution with 2 girls and i went with the one who i felt proved that they would be right for me and not just who i wanted the most. but dont rush the decision because people change quick but luckily my baby didnt and now im hapilly engaged
2007-10-20 15:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by some a-hole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not wrong. You are young, none of you are in love, you don't owe all of yourself just to them, and they don't to you. You should enjoy your freedom while you are still young. You have a lifetime to be with just one man forever...when you get married.
2007-10-20 15:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by ✿❃❀❁✾ Stef ♐ ✿❃❀❁✾ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST FRIENDSHIP , ANY THING MORE IS NOT LADY LIKE
2007-10-20 15:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by THIS ACCOUNT CLOSED 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋