Ok, i am 14 so this is kinda scary for me. I was with my boyfriend and he just wanted to try it...and i gave in, we were with out a condom and he ended up sticking it in me twice. Then i told him it was wrong and that we should wait untill we had protection. Could i get pregnit from just that?? and is that considered losing my virginity???? im freeking out like crazyyyy
2007-10-20 14:53:41 · 15 answers · asked by Lindseysgonebananas 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
is it likely that i would be? am i over stressing?
2007-10-20 15:16:27 · update #1
Prior to ejaculation - men secrete a pre-ejaculate. This has sperm in it and you can get pregnant from it. That's why having a guy "pull out" before he comes is not a good idea. This is not an acceptable form of birth control. You can still get pregnant even if he "pulls out".
Since you are curious about sex - I recommend that you have a woman to woman talk with your mother or your doctor. If those are not options -you may be able to go to Planned Parenthood or your local health department (women's clinic).
Although I think you are much too young to be having sex - if your going to engage in that behavior - you need to learn about it. Being sexually active with out knowing about sexually transmitted diseases and birth control is trouble.
Sex is an adult activity. If you think you are adult enough to have sex then act like it and talk to a responsible adult or health care professional. You have got a lot to learn.
2007-10-20 15:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by Boots 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay- you COULD get pregnant, but the chances are slim. There is "pre-c*m" which can come out of the males penis before he ejaculates. This can get you pregnant. There is always a chance, but again your is slim, since he didn't finish. I would say you lost your virginity. Just be safe from now on! Remember- there is always a chance, even if he just rubs skin to skin down there without going in. Sperm swims up. The only 100 percent way to not get pregnant is to not have sex. Sex is great, but it's not worth an unplanned pregnancy. Just wait until you're ready, or pleasure yourself. Take a pregnancy test if you're worried. The best usually can tell 3 days after your missed period.
2007-10-20 21:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by BlackDahlia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you could get pregnant and no, you are no longer a virgin. Why in the world are you having sex with someone if you have no idea what you are doing and you are only 14 years old? Honey, please don't do this again!!! You are way too young to be having sex.....if you did get pregnant, what would you do? Do you think he would stick around and be a dad? NO!! Please, rethink your priorities and find something else to do with your time. You are too young to go through this stuff. I am just concerned for you. i don't mean to sound crabby.~
2007-10-20 21:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have a chance of becoming pregnant. Guys have a pre-*** that has sperm. Yeah I would say you are no longer a virgin.
Now that you are stressing your period might be late. If it is late by two weeks take a home pregnancy test.
2007-10-20 21:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes you can definatly get Pregnant from that. There's a thing called pre-c um and even if he pulled out and didnt ejaculate you can still get pregnant.
Even if he stuck "it" in you for a second, you are no longer considered a virgin.
Hopefully your not pregnant, and you wont have sex again until your 100% ready.
In my opinion, you shouldnt be having sex unless you're prepaired to have children, and woudl be able to support them.
2007-10-20 22:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is a possibility that you could get pregnant from doing just that.....and you are no longer a virgin.....sorry. I hope you kids realize that some STD's are passed without having sex. HPV is a big one because guys don't know they have it there are no tests for men to find out if they have it and it can cause cervical cancer in women......educate yourself before you risk it.
2007-10-20 22:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by ~MEEEOW~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um.. 1- yes you are NO LONGER a virgin. And 2- you can get pregnant just from "that." Men exude some sperm when they get hard, not just when they ejaculate.. So yes you might be able to get pregnant.
That guy is a jerk if he "just wanted to try it" sex isn't something you just "try" for the hell of it.
2007-10-20 21:58:19 · answer #7 · answered by JRodriguez 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you could get pregnant but not likely as I doubt he had a chance to ejaculate and yes that is losing your virginity.
And Bravo to you for stopping and insisting on protection.
2007-10-20 21:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you could get pregnant!!!! And, you are no longer a virgin. Plus, dont hang around that guy anymore. Get some help. Do your parents know???
2007-10-20 21:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by k~dizzle 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if it was your first time which means you are nit longer a virgin, you can get pregnant even if he didn't ejaculated. When men are exited their penis produce a stick liquid which helps the penis penetrate the vagina which contains sperm!
2007-10-20 21:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋