2007-10-20 13:24:09 · 5 answers · asked by red is stoney creek 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I've been with my wife for 19 years, we have two boys, 18 & 14 and she knew about my cross-dressing when we met. Actually she asked to paint my nails one night & that led to her putting make-up on me, doing my hair & dressing me in her bra, panties, pantyhose, high heels, pink mini-skirt & matching top. After we had some intense girl on girl fun, I told her that I like to cross-dress and she said that she liked dressing me up and we still do it now.
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2007-10-20 13:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey poster..your partner didn't just start this behavior. He may have just come clean with you but males begin cross dressing from the time they can fit into moms pumps.
Cross dressers are not gay. They are men who like silk an lace not only on you but on themselves. They also like makeup and nail polish, ect.
It is perfectly fine and up to you whether or not to enjoy him as he is or berate him and make go back in the closet, which would be a shame if he is a good man and a great father. They are hard to come by.
Just think, you could be married to a man who turns out to be a drunk or someone who sleeps around on you.
I know it's hard to swallow but dear this guy could become the best thing that ever happened to you. You shop together and enjoy everything else a man full of testosterone can not and never will try to understand.
have a great life!
2007-10-20 21:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by Dardika Drake 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Gentle Reader,
It is perfectly fine to have a relationship with someone who enjoys womens clothing. He is expressing a desire to be feminine while still being a man. I would if I were you enjoy his desire to be with you at the same time wishing to be girlish. Just think you have a shopping buddy that if you do this right will feel right at home shopping for lingerie, dresses, skirts, and other ladies clothing, and the both of you can also have fun comparing notes while doing it. Be gentle with him and not judgmental, be tender with him not rough. Remember he is the same person you fell in love with and chose to be with. Yes it will come up with your children, "Why does daddy wear girl clothes", just tell your children that is the way your father and I love eachother. But don't be surprised if in the future he may wish to change his gender to be fully female, in that case allow the natural progression of this to occur, and be supportive if he wishes to do so. After it is done and you two choose to stay together then you will share a very special bond of sacred trust, love , and passion unlike anything you've ever experienced before in your lives. I hoped this has helped.
Erica Baker
2007-10-21 08:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by Erica B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Crossdressing is nothing but wearing clothes intended for a different sex. It has nothing to do with sex.
2007-10-20 20:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well as long as its not messing up anything
2007-10-20 20:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by McLovin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋