I met a guy and he came back to my flat. I had never done anything sexual with a guy or even kissed a guy! (I'm 18) anyway as we were kissing he slipped his hand down my jeans and put his finger inside me,it really hurt then he put his hand up my top and started to touch my breasts.He then took off my top and kissed my breasts.Then he took off my jeans and stuck his penis inside me. It only went in half way but it hurt so bad and he took it out again without him even starting to push it in and out.
I don't want to lie so was wondering,have I had sex with him? He never ejaculated at all and never got it in fully
2007-10-20 12:49:35 · 24 answers · asked by jacinta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, it was sex.
2007-10-20 13:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by labadala l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically I suppose you did.
I had a similar experience with a girl a few years ago. When I realised she was a bit well uptight about it and wasn't really ready I just backed off before we even got to the penetration stage.
Basically you need to relax sounds like he needs to aswell. Don't let is put you off a lot of peoples first experiences are disappointing including myself.
Just try not to think too much. Try to have sex people you have some feelings for and trust and respect you. They are likely to be a lot more attentive to you and you are likely to be much more relaxed too.
2007-10-20 13:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by Edmund 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he didnt have to ejaculate for it not to be counted as sex. next time be more careful you dont wanna loose your virginity to just anyone make sure he's special and not after whats between your legs also if the situation becomes "sexually heated" try your best to keep in control unless your absolutely sure that your ready for taking that step.
I waited until i was 22 and thats hard work for a guy (and no i aint ugly lol) but hey it was worth the wait.
hope you make the choice thats right for you cos end of the day its your body you choose what to do with yourself.
2007-10-20 13:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by x_urban_devil 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How many times do you need to ask this question.
YES it is sex. And, by the way that you keep advertising it, it seems you enjoy it! Is this the same guy or are you recording 4 or 5 separate events?
2007-10-20 20:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that, technically, it could be sex. But if it were me, I wouldn't count it. It wasn't the FULL act of sex.
In the dictionary...the definition of sex as we are talking about it is "the act of sexual intercourse...or coitus.
Here is the definition of coitus:
coitus
noun
the act of sexual procreation between a man and a woman; the man's penis is inserted into the woman's vagina and excited until orgasm and ejaculation occur
There you go...it wasn't sex.
2007-10-20 13:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by JA 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say that all though it was a very unusal, and obviously not very satisfying experience, that yes you have had sex with him. I would say that maybe both of you need some more practice, keep trying, it will get better. I promise.
2007-10-20 13:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This chapter isn't really going anywhere, is it?
You need to develop the characters a bit more.
It's only about an hour since you last asked this question. An hour doesn't technically count as writers block.
2007-10-20 13:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
how do you know it only went half way in, maybe it was a small penis or you have a deep vagina?
2007-10-20 13:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by mudslide_23511 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, sex is a bit like that.
2007-10-20 13:01:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a real virgin? let me ask you this did you bleed? if yes then I guess yes. Even you didn't intinded to, but it counts.
2007-10-20 13:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by Abe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am virgin and my age is 16
2007-10-21 07:49:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋