i used to feel much love from my wife, then she sudently changed, and we started fighting all the time, i even asked her to leave and said i dont want her, but then whene i knew she was pregnant, i said to myself, maybe thats why she changed, cus the hormones and the whole body changes, but the fights didnt stop, it was getting even worse, now we living in different countries, we dont fight as much as befor, but instead, i dont feel that much love from her, even the i love you at the end of each conversation, but it s just another normal word, i dont feel it whene she says it, i mean, she loves me, but not as much as befor, what should i do??
2007-10-20 12:47:20 · 11 answers · asked by zakk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well about being in different countries, its not my choice, immigration is crazy, they wont give me visa to be with my wife, i dont want to get into details, but it drives me crazy that i am not there for her, and not gonna be there when she delivers, and see my kid untill she is some months old
2007-10-20 13:16:26 · update #1
when i told her just leave, it was just a moment of madness, i was crazy angry, but i never meant it, i will never leave her
2007-10-20 13:47:36 · update #2
I was very ecstatic through all four of my pregnancies. Since I already had "deep love" for my husband, I now had even more "joy" in my heart for him. Since you have "declared love" for your wife, then just keep on transmitting "notes of affection" to her. You will be together with her soon. Herewith are some of my favorite scriptures which I will share with you. What shall we then say to these things? If GOD be for us, WHO can be against us? - Romans 8:31. The Lord daily loadeth us with BENEFITS, even the God of our salvation. Selah. - Psalm 68:19. I wish you well. Peace, Love and God Bless.
2007-10-21 06:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by In God We Trust 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When women are pregnant, it does not cause them to love their husband less unless the husband is not being supportive or kind to his wife. If a woman is cranky, it is often due to the fluctuation of hormones and the changes a woman's body is going through. Try having another human being growing in YOUR body and kicking, moving about, making your back ache and feeling like you have to go to the bathroom all the time. How about the nausea that many women feel? I almost died when pregnant due to my constant vomiting that was out of control and left me hospitalized twice.
I think that it's normal for a woman to be moody and cranky at times during pregnancy. Some women however, use their pregnancy as an excuse to be a b*tch. That is never cool or right. If you are being a loving and supportive husband and your wife is being argumentative and mean, then I'd speak with her doctor or a marriage counselor. Her moods could be a normal part of pregnancy, or they could be a sign of a medical problem. She could be feeling that she is not getting enough support from you and she could be resenting you for it. Hard to say. That's where a marriage counselor comes in. Trust me, when the baby is born, her attention will be given primarily to the baby for awhile, and any tensions you have now will only get worse if you both don't deal with them now. That's why I think you should contact her doctor or a marriage counselor.
2007-10-20 13:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are lots of possibilities
maybe...
she is not pregnant with your child and wants out of the relationship to be with the father
she is just having a hard time because of the distance
she has a huge hormonal thing going on
you said you didn't want her...til she was pregnant...you said it, she is making it happen
there are other possibilities, too, move back closer to her and see if you can work things out
2007-10-20 12:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by uranus2mars 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out to a bar and have a beer. Hormones makes women nasty evil wicked awful creatures. Then, you add pregnancy, and you are cooked. Don't fret much. Just say, "yes, dear. I love you" a lot more. Once her hormones settle down, things will be much better except she will want you to go out and get her strange foods... just shut up and get her what she wants even if you have to bribe people. Good luck and God bless.
2007-10-20 12:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait so she's pregnant and you're in another country? That poor woman! Why aren't you with her? No wonder she sounds sad on the phone, she's lonely and filled with hormones.
2007-10-20 13:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by rorybuns 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a woman who pregnant concentrate on her body, it's called nest mode. My husband said the same thing about me when I was pregnant, we slept in seperate beds. I'm more concerned for my child than him, especially in the later stage
2007-10-20 12:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by 結縁 Heemei 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some get postpartum depression after childbirth some deal with it own their own some have to seek medical help if it is serious enough choose the later my wife did
2007-10-20 13:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by Danny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her hormones are running ramped . Her brain is malfunctioning . Just ignore it its going to over soon
2007-10-20 13:07:07 · answer #8 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it makes a husband love his wife less becuase he hates responsibility
2007-10-20 13:12:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
think of the pain she went threw.id probably be pissed too
2007-10-20 12:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by tommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋