no one else wanted him so you had no CHOICE but to put him in a caring home. Now what can you say, when outsiders say.. to your face in the store...."You should take care of him"....and you just politely say.."I was UNABLE to."...WHY would nosy people say that?...i think it is mean...TELL ME WHAT ELSE I could say to them...(as if they would stay anyway)..it did NOT happen to them...geez! people!!!
2007-10-20 09:47:06 · 6 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Tell them to mind their own business.
2007-10-20 09:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
caring for any one is difficult and caring for some one with disabilities is even harder and more stressful if you felt unable to cope then you have done the right thing and hes probably better off and can then get better stress free quality time with you rather than if you hadn't and you were struggling, its no ones business but yours and if any one has any thing bad to say tell them they should think deeply about how you felt and feel and then how they would if they have any common sense they should realize you have done what is best for all - don't beat your self up about it at the end of the day these people must forget you have a life and your sanity to protect.
2007-10-20 09:58:45 · answer #2 · answered by LIL'EM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easy, if they are so smart ask them to come around and do some shifts for you and stay for a couple of days to give you a break. See if that shuts their big mouth that they obviously no nothing about.
2007-10-20 13:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the charming person should mind their own business do they realise how hard it was for you to come to that decision and that in the long run it is best for you and your family member because when you see them you are not stressed from trying to cope with the day to day tasks
take care of yourself he needs you and f... the begrudgers
2007-10-20 09:56:12 · answer #4 · answered by mombro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time someone tells you that, say "Care to help?" and then they might get the idea that it is a lot of work.
2007-10-20 09:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by Alice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you could have done better, then why didn't you volunteer to help me out???
my aunt was in the same situation, but we understood her view on things. she did it for her child out of love, to be cared for by someone who was trained and knew what they were doing. where as my mom did take care of me herself(disabled, not mentally impaired) each person has their own reasons for their choice.
2007-10-20 09:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by GOLDENFAIRY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them if they want to help. Put them on the spot.
2007-10-20 10:37:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋