About 1 month ago, my parents were away for the weekend and I went to a party at my bffs house. We were all having a good time and when the party was over my boyfriend came back to my house! We were having a really good night and we ended up having sex! I was supossed to get my period about 2 weeks ago so on Wednesday I went out and bought a pregnancy test! I was planning on taking it this morning but my older sister who is 22 came home from college for the weekend last night and I guess it was kind of stupid of me to leave the test sitting on my bed last night! I left to go over to my boyfriends house to tell him that I was planning on taking the test this morning! I forgot that my sister was coming home from college so I figured I could leave it out because my parents were out for the night! When I got home my sister was I guess waiting for me and she was like Hey and I was like Hey! Then she was like so Whats new and I was like not much same old stuff! And then she was like O that’s all! And I was like Yeah why! Then I started to worry! I remembered that I had left it out on my bed and I was like you saw? And she was like yes! I was like O and then basically ran upstairs! I don’t know what to say to her! I have been trying to avoid my sister all day because I really don’t know what to do or say! I still haven’t taken the test yet because I’m scared of what the results could be! What should I do? My sister asked me if I wanted to talk to her about stuff but I said no! The truth is I do want to, but I’m scared and I don’t know what to do! I’m 17 by the way.
2007-10-20 06:34:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
wtf r u talking bout...i only have 1 account u dumba$$...if u don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all!
2007-10-20 10:13:02 · update #1
Just relax.....Don't worry. just because you didn't get your period doesn't mean that you are pregnant. It just means that it might be late. I'm having the same problem myself. Periods can be delayed because of your diet, stress, etc. Now that you have that in mind. Take the test. Whatever the results are, just know that there are other people who have and are having this problem and that there are many support groups around. Good Luck.
2007-10-20 08:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by DCD4 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am an older sister and my sister is 4 years younger than me. If i were in your sisters shoes i would be hoping that you would come and talk to me.
She is probably worried about you because she will be thinking of all the worst case scenarios in her head because she doesnt know the truth. Please talk to her and listen to what she has to say. Perhaps ask her to be there when you take the test so that she can support you whatever the result is.
Your sister will love you so much and she will only want the best for you. When you speak to her you may not agree about certain things, but then again you might. Whatever is the case, she will be there for you and she wont judge you because like the others said she will most likely have been there herself.
She is probably wondering how to bring up the subject with you without scaring you, upsetting you or making you angry. If you reach out to her she will be relieved and happy you did so.
Good luck honey. I hope things work out for you. xx
2007-10-20 07:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah N 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take a deep breath.... okay, maybe a couple.
You need to take it all in perspective, and you need get into a space where you're not freaking out (I know that sounds impossible). The best way to do that is to TALK TO YOUR SISTER!!!!! It's okay to be scared. It's natural, and it's good to get it out. But talking is the best you can do right now.
Your sister probably knows how scared you are, and she just wants to help, so meet her halfway. Meet on neutral ground so no one feels intimidated. Being scared is not going to go away on it's own. Open up all the way and don't hold anything back, she'll respect you for it. Listen to what she has to say. But TALK. it really helps. Just get the hard part over with as fast as possible, and then the two of you can figure out what to do.
Best of luck and don't be scared.
God Bless!
2007-10-20 07:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON! The first think I would do is go talk to your sister... she is your sister she is going to love you NO MATTER WHAT! I would talk to her, tell her what you need to get off your chest. She is your sister who is older than you, she will probably have some good advice... then i would take the test, ask her to be there with you while you take it. If it comes out yes... there was a reason your sister saw the test- to help you tell your parents, or to get you the help that you need... if it comes out no I would go get on birth control! All and all you sister loves you and will talk to you!! So talk to her. And the BEST OF LUCK TO YOU! everything will work out!
2007-10-20 06:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are in an awkward position for you and your sister, you really should talk to her about it. She probably knows these things and will support her little sister. Take the test and find out. It's now or never. I'll star this and check back later for the results. Good luck!
2007-10-20 06:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps u can take ur lil sister on a lunch date then kinda like carry it up and if she denies it tell her u became lookin for a comb or somethin interior the tub room and located the try then see what she says ( the difficulty approximately u can purely hide a abdomen for see you later till it starts to instruct) ( have confidence i be attentive to) as for the brother trippin subject he's gonna discover out finally so i wouldnt tell him i might permit her or the main suitable pal tell em ya be attentive to that way she wont be too dissatisfied with u. yet all jokes aside is she see a doctor cuz something can take place mutually as u are pregnant and if she dont get the scientific interest she desires (no longer sayin that it will take place) yet somethin can take place( that the dr. can seize that should save the toddler and her )so seeing a dr is extremely important mutually as u are pregnant. a pal of my mom daughter became pregnant and he or she miscarried yet her mom didnt be attentive to and the babies stayed in her ineffective and now she cant have youngsters through fact the decomposin tousled her insides so tell ur sister.
2016-10-13 08:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe subconsciously you left the test out on purpose so your sister would see it and talk to you about things. If she is willing to talk to you and be there for you, then don't push her away. Explain to her what you are going through and let her be there for you while you take the test. She can help you get through the results, whatever they may be, and if you are pregnant, she can help you talk to your parents about it. Go talk to her, don't be scared, she very well may have been in your shoes at one time or another. Good luck, I hope you get the results you are hoping for.
2007-10-20 06:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mommy2One 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Just talk to her. Tell her that your scared. But if she's willing to be there to listen to you then I would take her up on it. You can't keep things like this bottled up inside you. And take the test!!! Its either postive or negitive. You got nothing to loose. Good luck! =]
2007-10-20 21:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ღ♥Alisa♥ღ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister already knows something is going on. Talk to your sister, because you need to take the test.
2007-10-20 07:38:28 · answer #9 · answered by Rosey55 D 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok, first off you need to relax. Then talk to your sister. She's older than you and most likely has been in the same situation, i know it's going to be hard nd akward, but you should really talk tosomeone about this and she's willing to listen.
2007-10-20 06:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋