i have a lot of fear in my mind.if my boss tells me somework?
i fear wheather i will complete it in time? wheather the work will accurate or not? will anyone get angry on me?will i lose job becaause of my work?
2007-10-20 04:43:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I guess fear is a normal feeling in each human being, but we have to make sure it stays within a limit it self or else it can effect our life in many ways.
Asp ur question I belive u need to build up more confident in the work u do! Even if u do something wrong, try to make it a learning point and dont ever repeat ur mistakes again. I belive u can do ur work by its deadline, but since ur worry too much u tentnd to loos the concentration in ur work.
Try to relax, during ur free times. Come to work in a happy mood. Dress formaly asp office requirment! Dnt worry too much in life, or else u will end up with nothing but sadness in life. Be happy and be confident enogh that u can do any thing only if u try!! All the best.
2007-10-20 04:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is fear as much as it is lack of confidence. Keep telling yourself "I can do this" and do other things to raise your confidence outside of work and it will carry over to the job. For example, read "As A Man Thinketh"
you might even go to a health food store and get some DMAE which improves concentration and memory and is all natural with no side effects and perhaps that will help. Remember that your boss would not usually tell you to do something if he didn't think you could do it so the fear is yours and not his and you can get past that by repeating to yourself that you can do it. Good Luck!!
2007-10-20 11:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. stop doubting yourself..you would not have the job if you were not qualified. 2.worrying will keep you from completing on time. just jump in and get busy. 3. if you did your research , verified the info and provided all vital components you will be fine. 4. you can never please everybody. you are an adult.. they get angry ..they get angry. 5. people who make no mistakes and have done nothing wrong..get fired. that is life. as long as you know you have done your best... .that is all that matters. my friend always says.. i was looking for a job..when i found this one. you will be ok
2007-10-20 12:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by foosieboy1953 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...this sounds like anxiety...more than it does fear...you can get a medication called buspar and that might help...your dr can prescribe
2007-10-20 11:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by Patti_Ja 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋