I Have A Wife but she is oversea, and i dont Want to have sex with other women that is not my wife, so i feel that if I masturbate , I calm my Sexual Desire, And I am cheating on my wife that I love with all My Heart and Mind for Ever and Ever and All Eternity and Eternity, But Then I Worry if It Would Be Harmful to me,
2007-10-20 03:54:51 · 25 answers · asked by oventura1999 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
No. It won't be harmful for you and it's not like cheating your wife at all. Don't worry, as long as you don't overdo it.
2007-10-20 03:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Drools over home made food 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it will cause a constellation of the assorted problems if you continue in your "perverse" ways: [Source a 1925 Government Publication backed by the Amercian Psychiatric Association for dissemination in High Schools which is probably the funniest book ever written too....] Must have been the same crowd that created Reefer Madness which proves that pot smoking leads to prostitution, murder, insanity and a whole host of goodies!
Dementia Praecox,
Hair Growth on the hands
Hirsuteness in women who masturbate
Psychosis
Antisocial behavior
Criminal conduct
Insomnia
Infertility
Incontinence
Prostate problems
but in the Evangelical community we find that Masturbation will lead to far worse things than the above like Eternal Damnation! Remember, Amigo, if you a man play with yourself, you are technically having sex with a man! That means you are a homosexual! And if you fantasize some other woman in your mind you are technically an adulterer!!
So God can "burn" you either way!!
But on a less facetious note, what makes you think your wife isn't doing it too? And who in this forum really gives a crap about your proclivities anyway. Keep it to yourself or discuss it with a close friend or doctor.
2007-10-20 11:07:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Natural yes, normal? Absolutely...... However, I will agree that everyday is a little free caring. It is good that you plugged into an out let to relieve your self. Just try and practice a little self control. The situation with fantasy is that it can wind up being a Pandora's box. Many people men and women find this out before it is too late and utilize it. However, don't allow your self to over indulge yourself in your own personal release. It can be very innocent at first and yes harmless but the truth be known if you get caught up in to much you could potentially find your self looking at other women. As a man, it is a very noble thing to uphold your vows, Kudos to you. If it takes adding a little sugar to your coffee then, so be it. However, too much sugar can make your coffee unpleasant and you'll loose the taste for that cup. See where I am going with this. Keep it minimal, keep it sane, and keep it real.
2007-10-20 11:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by skawp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife is overseas and you are walking around with a constant woody, then it would be understandable to masturbate and probably wouldn't hurt you or the relationship. You could use that energy though to do some yard work or other creative pursuits that you have been putting off and then give all that sexual desire to your lovely wife when she returns.
2007-10-20 11:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by Yam King 7 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You aren't cheating on your wife by masturbating. I'm sure that your wife would be more than happy to know that when you masturbate, that you're thinking of her while you do it... If you start thinking of other women, it would be a sin because you'd be breaking one of the 10 commandments.
2007-10-20 11:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by dewey c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation does not limit the number of times yo can get off. it may limit your sperm count. Eternity is a state of mind and guilt is imposed by religious nuts would couldn't get off with a wet vac! Masturbation is healthy for anyone. Go buy a toy at the adult shop and have some fun.
2007-10-20 11:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. You'll be fine. Plus I'm sure your wife appreciates this allot more then if you were to cheat! There is nothing wrong with masturbation as long as its done on the privacy of your own home.
2007-10-20 10:58:58 · answer #7 · answered by lovelylady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you are not American? In the U.S. Masturbation is something considered very normal. It is all over TV, discussed in schools, etc. It's probably better to masturbate and get your frustrations out then to have all of this pent up sexual tension and cheat on her.
2007-10-20 11:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by Erin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's nice to come across someone who is determined to remain faith full in today's climate, Don't worry about the other thing most the population indulge in the old five finger exercise when needs must and unless you do it to excess no harm will come to you.
2007-10-20 11:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by SAPPER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. Why does everyone think masterbation is bad. The old ways of thinking will never die.
Back in the day some parents made their children sleep with their hands outside of the blankets so they couldn't explore their bodies.
The only way it is going to be harmful is if you THINK it is.
2007-10-20 11:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by Veritas 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋