ok well i need a little help.
i have asked this question before but i need more answers..
well..
im 13 and in year 8 and theres this teacher at my school who's a bit weird, when the whole class is working, he goes around to like some of the girls in the class and like touches our sholders and plays with our neclaces and hair and it makes us feel really uncomfortable, he also leans over you or like across you on purpose and once i was crying so he asked me to leave the room, and he followed me out and i was standing infront of the lockers, and he pushed me agaisnt the locker and wouldent stop holding me their so i had to puch him away, and once i was walking up the stairs and he was going down but on the opposite side and i put my hand on the hand rail and he grabbed onto my wrist and like held my hand,and also once he asked me to stay behind after class to finish off work, and he fully leaned over me while i was sitting down..
is all this weird, like or am i just being parraniod.??
2007-10-20 03:27:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
No, you are not being paranoid. This teacher has no business grabbing a student or pushing a student up against a locker. This is sexual harassment and you need to tell your school councilor or the principle. You also need to tell your parents. I would also suggest that you talk to some of the other girls in your class and see if they would go with you to report him. We do not need these kind of jerks in our schools.
If you let him get away with this harassment, then he sooner or later will take it to another level and that would be a tragedy.
Please report this monster before it is too late! I know you are afraid to report him, but you need to even if your friends will not go with you. Someone must stand up to this jerk before he actually hurts a girl.
2007-10-20 04:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by cubby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know luv it does sound a bit out of order... if your friends have seen it happening too then maybe you should go see another teacher and explain what's been happening. Maybe make a list of times and dates of when things have been happening too. He shouldn't be pushing u against lockers! Does sound like he's trying to be a bit 'over friendly'. I would go with a friend who has seen it also happen in the classroom and go to a teacher you can trust. Good luck.xx
2007-10-20 03:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
just be really careful before you make a complaint against him. teachers' careers can get ruined by stuff like this. obviously if he's making passes at you (such as the locker incident) you need to speak to someone. just make sure you're not exaggerating it (im not saying that you are).
in response to anna g-unit, a petition can be really damaging. students will sign it for the hell of it and it can get really nasty. if you are concerned, speak to your counsellor or another teacher. but don't start involving all the students.
2007-10-20 04:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO you are not being weird or paranoid.
You need to speak about this to a trusted adult immediately. Can you talk to your parents? Or do you have a close adult friend? It is very important that you talk to someone.
Now all of his actions may be entirely innocent, but it certainly doesn't sound like it. So get some help and confront this situation before it gets out of hand.
Good luck,
mum2MH
2007-10-20 03:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by mum2mh 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You and all the other girls in your class that feel the same way should report him to the police. Who knows what he might do next.
2007-10-20 05:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is wrong with him. Report him to your parents first and they should contact the school. They may want to investigate. And why are you asking this question again, were the answers before not telling you the same thing?
2007-10-20 03:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by Snuffy Smith 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know what,if I were i will report him to the guidance couselor or the principal in your school because what is he doing is malicious and he is only taking advantage of you and your classmates. He is not supposed to do that because he is your teacher and you owe a respect from him eventhough you are his student and vice versa.If you will just keep quiet and do nothing, he will just keep on doing that to you and others.BE BRAVE ENOUGH,GIRL.YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE RESPECTED.
2007-10-20 03:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by cita e 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell your parents and your school's administration. His behavior is very inappropriate. A teacher should not touch a student as to where they feel uncomfortable. Tell someone immediately.
2007-10-20 03:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by Almost a college grad!!! 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell a teacher who you feel comfortable around and talk to her. And then bring it to the principal. This guy maybe friendly, but he should keep it to smiles and waves - not touching.
2007-10-20 03:47:18 · answer #9 · answered by NaKeisha 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel uncomfortable you need to speak to another teacher you trust, tell them exactly what has happened and that you are not happy with the situation.
2007-10-20 03:34:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋