Most of mine is against men who abandon their responsabilities. Like family, children. I detest their lazy selfish useless ways.Men who will have sex with anything that says yes and doesnt give a crap about the results or damange they cause. I could go on and on but Ill stop. So, where does your hatered come from?
2007-10-20 03:18:51 · 18 answers · asked by sandra b 5 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Bob D. You are right, but you must admit that it is your case is very rare. Much respect for you. Peace!
2007-10-20 05:12:55 · update #1
MIND OVER MATTER I CAN SPELL ANY WORD ANY WAY I WANT! SO THERE!!!>>>>STICKING TOUNGE OUT AT YOU!
2007-10-20 15:27:34 · update #2
Sandra B.
I just took some time to run through your questions.
My feeling is you soul is in pain and longing for some answers that will give you some peace. But dear, hatred is not a solution, but more weight upon your shoulders.
Cruel men, dishonest men, men who leave their wives and children don't make themselves. The parents who raised them, the society they live in and the moral fabric that surrounds them make them. We're all lumps of clay to be molded by whom ever gets to us first.
From the many questions you pose about God, I know you want answers from Him. But I think you're going to have to give up the hatred so He can be heard.
Also I perceive that you have a lot to give and to teach the world from your deep well of heart, but do you really want hatred to be your vehicle?
Hatred is a poison, and it poisons the poisoner.
Love to you!
2007-10-20 13:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by birdman 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I make a conscious decision not to hate. I feel that hate is like a poison infecting my body, mind and spirit. Also, hate is just a misinterpretation of the facts. If someone wrongs me or someone close to me, I can choose to see what the person has done, or I can choose to see the spirit behind that action. Hating does nothing but injure me. Forgiveness is the most self-healing process we have. It is a total act of self-love which has many positive outcomes.
2007-10-20 07:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by NRPeace 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Such a great question we could all ask ourselves!
Well my dear, I am learning it would come mostly from my inability to accept people as they are, but my need to control them and shape them by my own expectations into who they should be and how they should act. I still do this on occasion, but NOTHING like I used to do. This is fear based thinking of COURSE, and can be shifted to Love motivated thinking All resentments must go, taking with them the guilt you hold so close yet hidden, toward yourself. Compassion for all humanity IS possible Sandra B, focus on Love, what it feels like when you fill up with it wanting nothing but it's presence in your heart. Imagine if I could stop hating the boon and the troll, you can stop hate in your life. I believe in you and your abilities to do this. Focus on Love as your weapon and forgiveness as your shield.
I love you dear heart!
Valerie
2007-10-20 04:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by Valerie C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no longer fairly, your argument makes an inherent assumption that's the catch 22 project to start with, it relatively is, you seem to contend that the Sunni 'Sunnah' is the fairly 'Sunnah' and that's the important difficulty of polemic to start with Im afraid. Edit: yet that's the catch 22 project to start with, the Shia evaluate what they adjust to is the Sunnah of the Prophet (s) and so do we, extra desirable even the Quranists have a instead important argument on the downside. that's that the injunction desperate in the Quran that supposedly alludes to the Sunnah (obey the Prophet) at the same time as finished to Hadith is a logical non sequitur. you notice the subject isn't palpable in any appreciate subsequently the purpose why there is dissent to start with, if it was as reasonable as you communicate it to be then there ought to be no sects at keen on way of it ought to be self-obtrusive which it actual isnt.
2016-10-04 05:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex wife hasnt seen her kids in over six years...Now stop the sexist hatred and start to dislike people who do those things.
I dont hate her. Feel sorry for her. I get upset but hate..no. Too much work.
Let go of hatred. It isnt worth the effort and put the energy into helping others.
single dad of three teengers
2007-10-20 03:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by Bob D 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
To start with Hate comes from Love, Love comes from Hate. Both are manifestations of the same energy. If you can only love, you cant hate anymore....
But I am still not that enlightened in life ... I do hate, and I hate only one thing ... people acting without consciously aware of their act. If everyone is fully aware and responsible for their acts, world will become such heaven ..
2007-10-20 05:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by Neo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a very complex question, as hatred is individual, each for their own reason. In your case it seems you are fixated on negative men and only you are your inner self might know the answer. Are you secretly blaming yourself for once being in that situation and can't forgive yourself?
2007-10-20 06:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hate ingnorance, but of a kind that is harder to explain. One that deals with knowledge of life, and existence. i dont really "hate" actually because i know that it is only derived from responses to stimuli that my mind has conditioned response to. True "hate" can only exist in the ingorant that truely do not even understand what they are thinking. :) i could go on much more but i will stop.
2007-10-20 03:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by Fish&Rice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could write you atleast over three pages worth of mega dis-likes, but I hate only a few (even though my parents keep telling me not to hate, but I cant control it). I'm not going to mention them all, but I dont like very many things, and I dis-like alot of things.
But in general, to a degree, people who refuse to take responsibility (like you said) for their actions (however I'm a lazy ***, just physically though cause I've been getting tired quickly recently, and just sleep heaps, thats all, but nothing like the pricks you describe who abandon their moral responsibilities and family, they deserve to suffer.., and yes, I know sex aint everything...), but I also hate malice and *inserts three page rant* and not to mention politicians. They are the biggest cowards in the world, and i would personally love to kick all of their asses and screw them three times till saturday (not literally, just hurt them alot), and not to forget cowardice and people who refuse to shut up and pay attention and learn...*insert another 4 pages*....
2007-10-20 03:30:46 · answer #9 · answered by Suki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My hatred mostly comes from close minded people.
Like people who won't accept the "different"
Like homosexuals, bisexual, transgenders, different races, pericings and tattoos.
Oh, not to mention the assumer: "That girl with pericings must have gone to jail!"
2007-10-20 03:22:14 · answer #10 · answered by Buried.x.Heart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋