explain possible reasons in your own words.thanks.
2007-10-19 23:01:42 · 29 answers · asked by polly-pocket 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They are selfish. They don't care about anyone but themselves and they have the morals of an alley cat.
2007-10-20 00:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was that other woman in college, I wasn't cheating-he was I was the homewreaker and I viewed it as the home was already wreaked so I didn't start it. That was 10+ yrs ago and today I can't even believe I did that, but I know in my place at that time I was severely messed up, I had a very sh!tty home life and was trying to get attention any where it came from. Wasn't right but I was desperate. You know that guy actually contacted me through facebook this past year and he was hoping to re-hook up. Difference is I'm married now with kids and I couldn't imagine doing that to my kids or husband. He actually started stalking me and it got quite scary. I think you need to not just question the homewreaker but the guy, how can he hold up that charade. Too many woman blame the woman and say they are sl*ts, well what about the man who made a commitment to you, I'd take it out on the guy, they get away with it.
Bet people won't be as honest as I am.
2007-10-20 06:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by Yummy♥Mummy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some women wish to remain single and not have to deal with the issues that come up in living day to day in a marriage; that don't want that type of committment. They feel it is perfect for them as they get all the fun sides of a relationship and their independence also.
Some are living a fantasy and dreaming of the day he will leave his wife and they will live happily ever after.
Some are looking for financial support
And others have such low self-respect and esteem that they will settle for anyone who shows them love and affection.
2007-10-20 09:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A married man is the perfect relationship for some women because they are always living in the fantasy realm with hot dates, passionate sex and dreams of what their life would be like together if he would just leave his wife. It is when you are actually in a full-time committed relationship that life can be tough - nothing like washing the skidmarks out of his undies to kill the romance.
2007-10-20 06:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by mum2mh 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women like knowing a guy already has a perfectly good girlfriend or wife at home and that they are willing to be with them despite this fact. they feel special that the man is "risking" his relationship with his girlfriend to be with them.
they don't realize that the man is probably never going to leave the girlfriend or wife for them because he can already get with them without much effort.
so its a vicious cycle that the "other woman" will never get out of. anything with a risk factor involved is sometimes more appealing than honesty. something i am ashamed to admit, being a woman.
2007-10-20 06:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by kurrupt_dreams 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
"Sloppy seconds" refers to a fellow having sex with a woman immediately after she's had it with another guy.
The reason many women pefer being a mistress is they get all the bennies of an intimate relationship and don't have to put up with the negatives.
2007-10-20 12:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
trying to rationalize why and how a woman loves is impossible there too many reasons the easy one is a part-time man is better than having nobody.it begs the question who is the one with low self -esteem the woman that doesn't mind sharing or the one that feels she deserves her own man if that what they want then who are we to judge that choice
2007-10-20 06:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by xxhale69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mainly because they don't want permanent relationship.
Some are happy enough to have the odd occasion with this person without the responsibility of wifey duties.
Woman these days love there independence, and want to keep it that way.They also probably have great professional jobs.
2007-10-20 06:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by aotea s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just possible that they don't want the commitment of a full time relationship. Maybe being the other woman makes them feel important. Who knows what goes on in other peoples minds.
2007-10-20 07:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think because they actually have convinced themselves that they are better than the wife because the husband is willing to leave his wife's bed and come to thiers.
Its a true error in judgement on a woman's part.
2007-10-20 06:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by moniquesexy75 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because they think they can seduce a man away from his wife. During this time they end up falling in love with the man (because he is hard to get) & find it hard to leave the relationship with the hope that they may someday be with him. I reckon it's a pretty stupid thing to do myself but some women are pretty god dam stupid.
2007-10-20 06:06:01 · answer #11 · answered by Mishell 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋