she tells me she is going 2 her parents ends up at her friends, i call her she dont answer til she leaves there, she lies alot bout many things, I keep catchn her!!! What do I do?
2007-10-19 22:57:19 · 10 answers · asked by budman11901 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
throw her back in the sea..... move on.... and let karma do the rest.
2007-10-19 23:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why is she lying is the first question. Are you extremely controlling and jealous of any other types of relationships she has? Is this the only way she feels she can get some alone time? Is the relationship a happy one for both of you? I think you left a lot out. Best advice I can give:let her know you know and tell her you'd like to understand what is happening and why she feels she has to hide from you and try not to be accusatory and put her on the defensive.
2007-10-20 06:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its over!!!! You sound real wipped stop it now. She gos some place to get away from your harpping around all the time, do you work? If not start you need to do something with your free time get a hobby, then you'll wish she would go away for longer times. Stop worrying, you can lead to water but can't make'm drink, meaning if you can't let'm fly away you don't deserve to have them in the frist place.
2007-10-20 06:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by boatless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. She is a full grown woman, that is single and can do as she pleases. She is not bound to you in any way so can do what ever she wants, when ever she wants. You are actually just a roommate, with benefits. If you really want to make an honest woman out of her marry her, and then maybe she'd show you some respect. As it is now she owes you nothing.
2007-10-20 06:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is lying to you about little things then there is trouble in paradise Buddy. Watch yourself and don't get to deep and hurt. I would first have a talk to her about the situation. If she is a common law wife you can lose a lot in a separation. You might even consider hiring a private detective.
2007-10-20 06:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by aswkingfish 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you are not technically married. so she may do what ever she wants. but if you really want to know what she is doing just ask her. and ifshe continues to lie about it then tell her that you already know the truth and she may as well tell you. and that she don't have to hide anything from you. and the reason you want to know what she is doing is because you want to make sure she is safe. be honest wit the woman. and if you go out with your friends then you should tell her where you are going and who your going to be with if you ecspect her to tell you .
2007-10-20 06:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by tommysgurl_4502214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you know she is lying & that you don't think you can stay in a relationship with a person you don't trust. If she doesn't change then she doesn't care & you should move any anyway. Sounds like she may be on with another person so be careful.
2007-10-20 06:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mishell 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she is cheating or engaged in an activity she doesn't feel comfortable telling you about for what ever reason. I would follow her and then see what she is up to and confront her. If she is cheating leave her asap.
2007-10-20 06:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave her the heck alone she does what you allow her to do and she's going to keep doing it if i was you i would move on i pretty sure your anice looking guy you dont have to take that crap trust me all you do for her she will miss you when you gone.
2007-10-24 05:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by romeo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her and tell her that if this carries on then u will have to overlook the whole of ur relationship and just decide whether their is still love between u or would she continue betraying the faith u have in her?
2007-10-20 06:02:22 · answer #10 · answered by ICE DROP 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋